AboutRyan Expertise I can answer questions about long distance relationships, high school/college relationships, crushes, jealousy, heart break, love at a young age, sex at a young age and talking about marriage when you're in your teens. I can also help if your parents dissaprove of your bf/gf. I know all the lingo, I know Facebook, IMing, MySpace, etc., so hearing these words won't be new to me.
Experience I have been through numerous relationships, long distance relationships, and loving ones. I know how to handle every situation in the manner it should be.
Education/Credentials In college for engineering, have taken numerous psychology/sociology classes in college, as well as having a mother who is a psychiatrist.
Expert: Ryan Date: 6/6/2008 Subject: Where are we going?
Question Hiii, i really, really hope you can answer me. Help is greatly appreciated.
have this guy who I'm really into. But there are some issues.
First of all, we've been talking for two months. I really like him and I think he likes me, but I'm not sure if we're going to go any where. A little while ago I asked him where he sees us going and he said, "I see us going further." But, I haven't seen any progress.
I don't know if he was trying to pacify me or if he really meant it. He texts me every day and makes the effort to see me every weekend. When we're together, it's just flashing lights for me. We ACT like a couple when we're together.
I just don't know what's going on. And I've opened up to him a bit, but I'm afraid to open up fully for two reasons:
1) Because of a bad relationship in the past.
2) I don't want to over whelm him.
What do I do?
Answer Ally Cat,
You're having trouble opening up because of past relationships, and it's fully normal. What you need to realize is that, not every new relationship will be like your old ones. If you're hesitant about it, go slow with it.
If I were you, I'd talk to him about your feelings, and let him tell you yours. If you don't want to overwhelm him, then don't tell him too much too fast, let it progress slowly.
It seems like you're really into him, so be happy, smile, and look alive. Don't let life pass you by and let past feelings get in the way of new ones.
