AboutSandi Expertise I can answer most types of question dealing with teens and preteens. I can give advice on dating, love, sex, friendships, same sex relationships. I am experienced at most preteen & teen subjects and have given advice to many people before. Who better to give advice to teens as being one myself?
Experience I'm a teen girl and have been in many relationships, both with guys and girls. I've been in many different situations and can give you great advice.
Question Hi. I'm 15, my boyfriend is 18. My parents would completely disown me if I continued to see him. He's black and my parents don't believe in mixing races. We've been together for a year and 2 months now. We love each other SOOOO much. I'm to the point where I don't really care what my parents do/say and I know I want to be with him more than anything. The problem is, his mom made him move to another state through all of this to keep him out of trouble and we broke up because he began smoking weed. I told him I was against it and there was no way I would put up with it. He didn't believe me so I dumped him. He got himself 100% straightened out. I began talking to him again but he had another girlfriend. He told me he didn't want to lose either of us because he loved us equally. I told him there was no way he could love 2 people the same ammount. I told him if he loved her he should be with her and I would perfectly fine. (I lied. I'm not going to tell him I'd be miserable without him because that would give him the advantage) But he chose me over her. But now.. his phone has been disconnected and the only communication I have with him right now is through his cousin. But his cousin is "in love" with me and doesn't want me to be with Jervon. I'm so scared. I don't really get into these advice things but I have no one else to turn to. Do you think you can help? If not.. I completely understand. No hard feelings. Thanks for your time.
Answer i think your way to young to be feeling completly in love with this guy. i think you should continue to date other people and stop talking to his cousin (unless you want to date him). also, this guy is a bit old for you i think. you should find someone closer to your age. color of skin is not important to me but i do think you have to listen to you parents and respect their rules (although I think they are stupid). good luck and please let me know if you want to talk more.
