About James Expertise I can answer most questions on dating from male or female perspective, straight or gay as i believe every person goes through the same problems in life but on different scales.
Experience I've always given people advice, its something i'm good at, i'm gay and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years,i don't think our relationships perfect but its healthy. I give my female friends advice and they say i'm good because i'm honest, its not always the thing they want to hear but in the end it makes for happiness. My relationship started out long distance and we now live together, so i can give personal advice on a lot of issues which i have dealt with. I'm a nice, polite guy and i'm applying as i really want to help people with personal issues.
Education/Credentials well i attended and passed secondary school (high school) but apart from that its just the school of life, i feel i naturally understand and relate to people, something no education could get you.
Expert: James Date: 7/19/2008 Subject: Boyfriend Trouble!!
Question I need some boyfriend help because i dont know what to do.My birthday was on sunday so my boyfriend and i decided to spend time together on saturday like go to the mall and stuff and just spend time.He told me to call him around 10:00 in the morning so he can come pick me up and we could spend time.On saturday morning i call him like 4 time and no one picks up i leave him 2 voice messages and text him 3 times asking him to call me back or text me since we were supposed to be together.At around 1:00 he texts me and tells me that he slept over his friends house and now they are going to go run and that he is very tired and he is sorry about that and he tells me he loves me and stuff and he knows i am upset but he still loves me.We did not spend time the whole day since he said he was with his friend and stuff.So i do not know how to react to this sitution.Should i be mad or something.I am mad but i need help how should i react to this stupid act of his.I need help.
Answer Hi Jessica,
It'd be perfectly normal to be angry, he made a commitment to you and then let you down, slept round his friends house knowing he had to go with you the next morning and then left you waiting for him, I would explain why i was mad and how i felt and hopefully he should apologize properly and not just over a text, which i feel was a ridiculous way to apologize.
Best wishes
James
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PS sorry about the late reply, i only just got the Internet back after moving.
