AboutRyan Expertise I can answer questions about long distance relationships, high school/college relationships, crushes, jealousy, heart break, love at a young age, sex at a young age and talking about marriage when you're in your teens. I can also help if your parents dissaprove of your bf/gf. I know all the lingo, I know Facebook, IMing, MySpace, etc., so hearing these words won't be new to me.
Experience I have been through numerous relationships, long distance relationships, and loving ones. I know how to handle every situation in the manner it should be.
Education/Credentials In college for engineering, have taken numerous psychology/sociology classes in college, as well as having a mother who is a psychiatrist.
Expert: Ryan Date: 7/19/2008 Subject: Boyfriend Trouble!!!
Question I need soem boyfriend help because i dont knwo what to do.My birthday was on sunday so my boyfriend and i decided to spend time together on saturday like go to the mall and stuff and just spend time.He told me to call him around 10:00 in the morning so he can come pick me up and we could spend time.On saturday morning i call him like 4 time and no one picks up i leave him 2 voice messages and text him 3 times asking him to call me back or text me since we were supposed to be together.At around 1:00 he texts me and tells me that he slept over his friends house and now they are going to go run and that he is very tired and he is sorry about that and he tells me he loves me and stuff and he knows im upset but he still loves me.We did not spend time the whole day since he said he was with his friend and stuff.So i dont know how to react to this situation.I am mad and stuff but i don know how to act.Please help me and tell me what i should do.
Answer Jessica,
I'd try talking to him as to why you're upset. It was rude of him not to call if the plans were to be broken, and you shouldn't have been left sitting by, waiting for his call.
If he wants to go out with his friends, then he should have the decency to call and let you know. I know sometimes that time flies by, and we can't always call right away, but at least a call should have been in order.
