AboutAshley Expertise I can answer a lot of questions involving dating. My expertise ranges from sex to kissing, abstinence to friendship and everything little thing in between. If I can`t answer your question, I`ll ask around from my friends until I find the answer.
Experience I've been through a lot of crap involving guys and friends for the majority of my life so I have a lot of experience dealing with teen problems because I most likely had the same problem at one time in my life. I love to give advice and I'm a great listener.
Question When I was in Grade 6 I met this guy his name is Jordan, We became REALLY close friends, Him, me, and my friends Sarah and Michelle. All my other friends had crush's on him, but not me, he was more of a brother. In the beginning of grade 7 we were still close but at the end we almost never talked. But when Sarah moved away I realized how much I was missing not being friends with him. So we started hanging out again in grade 8. And now I am going to grade 9 and we still aren't as close as in grade 6. But we are better then in grade 7. But My problem is the following:
1. He is my close friend.
2. My Best Friend Likes him.
3. He has a Girlfriend.
4. They have been dating for 2 months now.
5. He seems to be drifting away, fast.
6. I feel like I am Smothering him.
7. I haven't talked to him in a month.
8. When ever I go down to get him, He is either with his Girlfriend or out with friends,
9. And if you haven't guessed by now, I like him. Allot.
10. And I would like to date him,
HELP!
Answer Amy -
Well I think dating him is out of the picture because he has a girlfriend and your best friend likes him. I would just stay friends with him for now. Give him his space for now so he doesn't freak out and push you away. Understand that he has his own friends and a gf and that you can't hog all his time.
