AboutTyler Expertise I can answer most questions on all aspects of teenage dating, including sex, the way teens think, breaking up, cheating, first dates, date ideas, dealing with parents, etc... I do not condone teenage sex before the age of sixteen.
The one requirement I have of anyone asking a question is that the question be written in proper English, with no Internet jargon (ur, b4, lol, etc...). If I receive a question with improper English, I will reject the question so you can re-ask in proper English. I'm here to help, but not if it gives me a major headache trying to decipher what you mean. This counts towards proper grammar: you know...paragraphing. I don't want to read a huge block of text.
Experience I'm a teenager myself, and I have been through most, if not all, of the trials and tribulations all teenagers face. I'm the go-to guy for advice in my school. I have the ability to see both the male and female side of the issues.
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Education/Credentials Graduating senior from high school, attending SUNY Geneseo in fall 2008.
Expert: Tyler Date: 7/5/2008 Subject: Loss of Sex Drive
Question QUESTION: I'm 19 and I've recently noticed that I've lost my sex drive completely. I've
been on birth control since I was 13. I no longer have any interest in sex with
another person or even by myself and whenever I think about my boyfriend
pleasing himself I get depressed. My boyfriend lives 3000 miles away and we
are separated because of the army. I've never had this problem before. I've
always had a very healthy libido until the past 2 months. Is there something
really wrong with me?
ANSWER: Cat,
Do you have a problem with having sex while with your boyfriend?
Please answer in a follow-up.
Cheers,
Tyler
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QUESTION: I went to a sex therapist before this because I've never had an orgasm but I've
always enjoyed it even if I haven't but now I don't even want to. But I have no
problems with my boyfriend and sex.
Answer Cat,
It sounds to me like you're losing interest in sex because you're nowhere near your boyfriend. You might be missing the stimulation your boyfriend gives you and the bond you feel with him during sexual acts.
I'm no expert on sex, so I recommend talking to your sex therapist so you can find out the real reason (not just my prediction) on why you're having this unexpected decline in libido.
