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Expert: Ashley
Date: 7/4/2008
Subject: Question
Question
I work with this girl that I asked out she actually asked me out first then I asked her out on a date a week later because when she asked me out I had a cold and I wanted to wait. She is 24 I’m 23 she has two kids a 7 year old and a 1 year old. Now she is telling me she doesn’t have any free time to go out because with a full time work and 2 kids are a handful she told me she thought she could date but now she realizes she can’t she would like to but she can’t and she needs to tend to her two kids. Her son does a lot of sports and she goes to all his games baseball, basketball. I want to spend time with her so rather than going out on a date with just her where she won’t be able to so is it okay to ask her if it is okay with her that I would like to take her and her kids to the zoo, or aquarium, or museum, or a baseball game as her 7 year old son loves baseball something like that. I have not even gone out with her once yet so is it weird or a stupid thing to ask her this I don’t know I want to spend time with her but I know she is being a good mother I thought if the only way to spend time with her is to spend time with her kids the same time as she is always with them and spending time with them. I don’t know what do you think stupid move will she think this is weird that I haven’t spend time with her once and I’m asking to spend time with her the first time with her and her kids.
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Thomas -
I think you making plans to have her bring her kids along would be a good idea. Maybe if she sees that she's comfortable around you, you two can start hanging out without the kids. It shows that you understand that she's busy and that having kids is a big responsibility.
Ashley
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