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Experience High school graduate
I have studied psychology for a number of years
Question I am 19 years old, a senior in college and have been dating my boyfriend, who is 21, for almost 8 months now. After our first month or so, we immediately began petting each other. After a while, the petting turned into heavy petting, and so on...
I have not had vaginal sex, but we've engaged in oral. It might not make a difference, but I'd like to leave the vaginal sex for marriage. Hey, something to look forward to right?
Recently I went to his house and we had some very steamy 4 hrs. I'm going to his house again (his parents are away), and we're planning to repeat the 'fun.' The only problem is, I can't help but feel guilty about my actions. My mom always talked to me about sex and ALWAYS suggested abstinence...not just vaginal! I tell her times have changed and that as long as sexually intimate relationships are kept private (no kiss and tell), a couple can do whatever they want. She knows my point of view too and she hates it, of course.
Am I doing wrong? I love my boyfriend and I think this is just a part of growing up, learning and experimenting (safely, of course), but I feel so guilty. The last time we were together I just laid down thinking about my mom and how ashamed she would be of me. Help!
Answer Hi,
By you asking this question you know the answer. You know it's wrong and yet you want me to tell you it's not. Speak to a doctor about sex risks and get tested. What you are doing is foolish. Sorry, this is not how you should be acting.
P.S. You are disrespecting his parents by doing such when they aren't home and you know they won't approve.
