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Expert: Ryan Date: 7/15/2008 Subject: i dont know how to tell my feelings to him
Question QUESTION: ok so there is this guy that is 23 and im 18 ..he says he loves me but not
ready to date (have a girl friend) yet cuz if he did date me he would not be a
good bf but says i still have a chance with him in bout a year or less...well
anyways he asked me "why is it that you want me"... and i just said cuz i do
....im not very good at explaining anything so my feeling are even more hard
to explain to people and i think i might love him and want to tell him why i lik
him just dont know how to start or end how i feel..so if you could help me out
i would be so great full
ANSWER: Helen,
Expressing feelings is tough, and normal. What I'd do is write everything down on a piece of paper as to why you like him. You obviously have your reasons, so let them be known. Think deep down, and ask "why do I like this guy SO much?". Then, recite what you wrote, or give him the piece of paper.
-Ryan
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QUESTION: i did what you told me to do and well he says im cute and that we should just be friends ..what should i do i rele like him
Answer Hello again, Helen,
There's a good quote for your situation, it goes "give it time girl, fire feels divine".
You have to give this a little time. Try to stay in contact as much as you can, seeing him, etc. After a little while, he may either find he has feelings for you, or decide that he still does want to be friends.
