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Question K, so i'm 15 years old and me and my ex had been dating for about 3 months, he asked me to marry him when we were older...he even got me a ring and I got him one.I am still in love with him. We have broken up 3 times in the last two weeks and its always been him breaking up with me. The first time was because we couldn't see each other cause we got in some trouble at the mall. But then he begged me to take him back cause he loved me with all his heart and we could make this work. So that worked for about two days. Then he started to get really friendly with his ex girlfriend (who is 16 and has a kid that's two) who he said he hated. So i asked what was up with that and he said because he loved her and he had the whole time and that he wanted to be with her. So he said we could be bestest friends, but she didn't like me. Me and her tried to be friends but it was really hard to talk to her when she was with him (which was all the time, she would sleep at his house) and hear them say I love you when just a day ago he had been saying it to me (he said he meant it). I finally got to talk to him while he was by himself and he hacked her profile on myspace and found out she was cheating on him with the father of her baby. So he called her up three way and broke up with her. A few hours later on the phone he asked me back out, i was stupid enough to say yes. The next day we were talking ( i was really happy, i always am when i'm with him) and he said that he was having second thoughts again. So i got angry at him, then depressed and begged him to stay. He said that he didn't have 'relationship feelings' for me. When just a few minutes before he had said that he loved me with all of his heart (i have the text to prove it). I started crying all over again. He says that he needs some single time so he can try to bring the feelings back because he feels like a pile of shit for doing what he did. I just don't understand him. I don't understand why I cry over him. Please help.
Answer dump him and find someone else. really, you dont need this kind of guy in your life. marriage? are you kidding? you are way to young to even think about marriage. date other people and dont get so serious with anyone right now. just have fun and be a kid.
