About Ryan Expertise I can answer questions about long distance relationships, high school/college relationships, crushes, jealousy, heart break, love at a young age, sex at a young age and talking about marriage when you're in your teens. I can also help if your parents dissaprove of your bf/gf. I know all the lingo, I know Facebook, IMing, MySpace, etc., so hearing these words won't be new to me.
Experience I have been through numerous relationships, long distance relationships, and loving ones. I know how to handle every situation in the manner it should be.
Education/Credentials In college for engineering, have taken numerous psychology/sociology classes in college, as well as having a mother who is a psychiatrist.
Expert: Ryan Date: 7/1/2008 Subject: when a guy goes through heart-break does he..?
Question he liked me for a year before he had the courage to ask me out but even then he had his friend get my number and ask me questions like what i thought about him and if i would ever see him more then a friend! he never told anyone but his best friend that he liked me...he was really shy but great looking a lot of girls where interested but he always turned them down. so i finally told him how i felt and he admitted he felt the same(i liked him for a year as well hahaha) we went out for a while then got together we lasted four months i ended itbecause he started ignoring me! he took things really really slowly he did not kiss me till a month into our relationship and ever time we held hands his hand got sweaty it was not nice but i didn't care!=)he told me he loved me and i did not say it back but i did love him! but then later i did say it! and i meant it with all my heart! after we broke up(i kinda did it unexpectedly) he came up to me trying to hug me and i pushed him away and said i think we should be friends! he said "ok ill talk to you later" then walked away later that day he was dragging his feet everywhere! a girl in one of his classes said he was very down that day =(...i told him i made a mistake and he told me no he said he likes someone else and was planning to break up with me!=/ he would make out with her in front of me they did not last even when they where together he would still talk to me he remembers the date we brokeup/got together!then he got with our ex lab partner(it was the three of us thats how we meet(lab group)they did not last now he is with another girl and he claims he loves her with all his heart! and i know its just myspace but all the girls after me were on his top as number one! i was never his number one=/ i was always three after his two best friends since his childhood! he was doing so good when we where together he got a well score on his SAT kept his grades good got into colleges but after we broke up he was a big flirt! it seemed like he hit on everything that had a pulse!starting ditching,drinking and now he didn't even graduate with his class! he joined the marines.he wanted to be a professor its like i dont know him anymore but i love him with all my heart and i know i did not really show it but he heard me cry over the phone he saw the look in my eyes when i saw him with one of his gfs he says he only likes me as a friend but the last day of school he texted me telling me am a ho and a ugly b***h and no guy would ever like me! i want to know is he like secretly no completly over me or idk! but he is not the same he changed and he was so nice but not anymore but for some reason no matter how much he hurts me i still love him=/
Answer Ashley,
If someone is completely over their ex, then they don't do immature things like he is doing. Calling you names, making you jealous isn't something he'd do if he was over you.
I wouldn't let him back into your life. He's treated you miserably the past while, and it's not something you deserve. It'll take time, but you'll move on. We've all been in the same boat. If anything, his actions show he's not worthy of you, as you need a guy who is more mature, and handles things better than he.
