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Expert: Tyler Date: 7/19/2008 Subject: How do i get that spark back??
Question My boyfriend and i were dating for a year and 3 months.Everything is fine right now.He loves me and I love him.There is no doubt about that.But he has changed a little i guess its because he has been with the same girl for so long.In the beginning he was very romantic and sweet and excited to be with me and spend time with me.He called me all the time.Now it has changed.I want it back the way it used to be.I want him to want to see me and i want him to want to call me.How do i do that.How can i get the spark back.Please help.Thanks
Answer Jessica,
I've been in this situation too many times. The thing is that he's becoming comfortable with your relationship. He's thinking, "I've had her for a year and three months, I don't need to work nearly as hard as I did." And he's wrong. It's always hard work.
You can always try and initiate the spark. Try something new. If you're sexually active, think of new things to do with him in bed, things like that.
But when all is said and done, he's the only one who can fully reignite that spark. You're more than willing--he has to as well.
