About James Expertise I can answer most questions on dating from male or female perspective, straight or gay as i believe every person goes through the same problems in life but on different scales.
Experience I've always given people advice, its something i'm good at, i'm gay and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years,i don't think our relationships perfect but its healthy. I give my female friends advice and they say i'm good because i'm honest, its not always the thing they want to hear but in the end it makes for happiness. My relationship started out long distance and we now live together, so i can give personal advice on a lot of issues which i have dealt with. I'm a nice, polite guy and i'm applying as i really want to help people with personal issues.
Education/Credentials well i attended and passed secondary school (high school) but apart from that its just the school of life, i feel i naturally understand and relate to people, something no education could get you.
Expert: James Date: 7/7/2008 Subject: not over him......
Question he says he is but his actions speak otherwise well he does have a gf(third since we broke up) and supposly he has loved all of them very much! he texted me calling me very mean things and telling me no guy would ever like me! he did this about 2 weeks ago on the last day of school(last day i would see him)and we have been broken up for six months already! we talk on myspace like we are friends but when we see each other in person he ignores me i broke up with him supposly i was his "first love" that he had a relationship with but after we broke up i told him i made a mistake and if we can work things out he said he found a new girl already =/ i still love him for some dumb reason it gets me mad when he shows the whole world how much he is in love with his new girlfriend....he never did that when i was with him i will admit i am jealous and i came up with this cute phrase that i would tell him and he would reply back with forever and ever....no one would ever come up with our phrase and now he tells it to his gf!(the phrase that i made up, it was an insider) i just want to know how can i make him realize he is not over me or him admit it?...i dont want to tell him how i feel because he has a gf! *he remembers a lot of little things about our relationship
Answer Hi Ashley,
Men do strange things when they're hurt, the break up obviously affected him. You can't make him admit or realize he's not over you as thats his decision. I would suggest you focus more on your life, there's no point in waiting around for him to come clean about his feelings for you, thats even if he does still feel for you. Wait for him to tell you his feelings, it has to be his choice.
