AboutTyler Expertise I can answer most questions on all aspects of teenage dating, including sex, the way teens think, breaking up, cheating, first dates, date ideas, dealing with parents, etc... I do not condone teenage sex before the age of sixteen.
The one requirement I have of anyone asking a question is that the question be written in proper English, with no Internet jargon (ur, b4, lol, etc...). If I receive a question with improper English, I will reject the question so you can re-ask in proper English. I'm here to help, but not if it gives me a major headache trying to decipher what you mean. This counts towards proper grammar: you know...paragraphing. I don't want to read a huge block of text.
Experience I'm a teenager myself, and I have been through most, if not all, of the trials and tribulations all teenagers face. I'm the go-to guy for advice in my school. I have the ability to see both the male and female side of the issues.
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Expert: Tyler Date: 8/6/2008 Subject: Deep Conversation?
Question QUESTION: I have been going out with a girl that I knew for a while as a friend, she is 15 and I'm 14.
We have similar interests with many things, but I wonder if couples have these really deep conversations that you hear about all the time. We usually talk about a play we've seen, or about the music we're listening to, friends or whatever. This is punctuated by making out and some other fooling around, nothing too serious.
We've been going out for about a month and I'm not going to tell you a lie, and say that I think she's the best things that's ever happened to me or something along those lines, but she's nice and she's pretty and I do enjoy spending time with her and kissing her.
I'm wondering if you know whether or not couples should always feel a really deep, heart to heart connection where you talk about the meaning of life and things of that sort.
Thanks,
Wil
ANSWER: Will,
One cannot always feel that deep, heart-to-heart connection. You two have only been dating a month, and a deep heart-to-heart connection is different for each person. It's a different feeling for me than it will be for you. Simply enjoy it while you can. You'll know the feeling when it comes.
Cheers,
Tyler
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QUESTION: When you say that eventually you'll feel it, do you mean eventually with a
different person?
Or do you mean that as our relationship progresses, a connection will form
deeper.
Answer You'll eventually start feeling it, and it just becomes tighter as the relationship progresses. More so for the woman than the man, but this connection especially comes with progressively explicit sexual acts--having sex is a symbol of love and absolute respect and trust for each other.
I do not condone underage sex in any way, especially when you've been dating for a short time. Being that you're fifteen and she's fourteen, I especially do not condone sex between the two of you. Just let it flow, y'know?
