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Expert: Faith
Date: 8/28/2008
Subject: Help! Guy probs?
Question
Well there's this guy in my geometry and i reaaally like him. We started talking everyday for a week and we really connect. This is the first guy I've had a crush on that I can actually talk to! But he has a girlfriend. They haven't been going out that long. Also he commented on my myspace picture saying "Wow you look really gorgeous in this pic:)" Now I'm not sure what this means coming from a guy especially because he has a girlfriend! My mom says I should try moving on but I just met him and I want to stay optimistic that they could break up and I'm not willing to give up that easy considering how much I like him. My friends say I should just get to now him and kind of flirt with him to get him to like me more than his current girlfriend. He's defianetly not the player type though, he's really nice to me- sometimes he annoys me though haha, but in a fun way, you know. I'm wondering what I should do- Should I wait until him and his girlfriend break up and then take my chance, or do you have any ideas or ways for me to cope with the jealousy I'm feeling right now! Oh and we are both 14
Answer
hi lauren,
honestly, i think your mom is right. this guy has a girlfriend and despite what may appear on the surface, i'm sure he really cares about her in his own way. otherwise, he wouldn't be with her. also, i don't think you would want to get with a guy by flirting with him (and having him flirt back) while he's with a girlfriend. that would make him less of the nice guy you think he is because that's pretty much cheating (on his part at least).
i know you don't want to miss out on your chance with him, especially if he's making it clear you like him, but while he's dating someone else, there is no chance with him. the bottom line is, if he really wants you, he'll make the effort to get you to notice him again, if and when he breaks up with his girlfriend. for you to wait around or invest your self in a guy who's still in a relationship wtih someone else isn't fair to you.
hope you see my point.
good luck!
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