AboutSandi Expertise I can answer most types of question dealing with teens and preteens. I can give advice on dating, love, sex, friendships, same sex relationships. I am experienced at most preteen & teen subjects and have given advice to many people before. Who better to give advice to teens as being one myself?
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Expert: Sandi Date: 8/6/2008 Subject: me my best friend and her bf
Question Hey im molly 13 and single. now my Friend Liz has this bf, he use to be mine but broke up wif me after 4 days. and well i was a lil sad but i like him alot and i might ask him out again later....now he is going out wif my bf Liz.im not mad at all but he and her are having problems...he acts really jerkish around her sumtimes...she use to cut and he makes fun of it..like that "emo" ppl are stupid for like cutting. and that offends her bc well she cuts...and acts so sweet she tells me when its just them...but when its them in public he doesnt act like her bf he just is kind of jerkish and funny(not always in a good way to her) and i asked her if she wants to break up wif him and she said idk....i no i should be like "break up wif him so i can go out wif him" but i dont...i may like him so so so much...but i want her and him to be happy bc those two are my best friends....and im trying to help stay positive...and i told her to tell him or he will just do it....so i had them sit down and talk but they didnt....he was like "this isnt any of ur business!"....i got mad bc she comes to me complaining....idk wat to do...bc i really really like him and i wnna go out wif him so badly but im trying to keep them together....im not sure wat i should do for "ME" and wat i should do for "HER" can u get me a clue..lol bc im clueless...thnx for listening
Answer this guys really doesnt sound like someone either one of you should be going out with. to be so uncaring that your friend is cutting herself should be red flag number one. you both need to forget about this jerk and move on. be there for your friend and try to make her understand this guy is no good for her. once she realizes this and breaks up with him you both should not talk to him. good luck and please let me know if you want to talk more.
