| |
You are here: Experts > Teens > Teen Advice > Teen Dating Issues > confused
Expert: dianne
Date: 8/7/2008
Subject: confused
Question
i dated my boyfriend for six months and i loved him, i also had sex with him which is such a huge deal becuase im a big christian and im only sixteen and i had sex., well my boyfriend is 17 and got his license and everything changed he hung out with friends didnt call me ignored me and i got upset i kept asking do you want to break up hes like no were fine were fine and then he wouldnt want to hold my hand or anything and then i saw him at the mall and he just waved at me! thats aall he did. i was so upset then i walk down the mall with my mom and i see him with a girl that wanted to hoook up with him and his friend and his gf i was so hurt i freaked out and then the next night he called me and broke up with me and wouldnt do it in person bc he said id freak out and he couldnt take it anymore, but the thing is i didnt do anything wrong, but hes making me believe i did eveyrything wrong, my parents are very involved in it and they know i dont but when i date people im really into them and care for them. i spent like every day with him, i dont know whati going to do im so confused and i need to get over him but i know hell want me back, and when he does, ill be so hurt itll be so hard, all my friends are like its not your fault but its just in my head that it is becuase of him, i just want to get over him.
Answer
Well it is clear that this boy got what he wanted and then dumped you! That is why they say do not have sex. Now you know how one can be hurt afterwards if the relationship stops. Go with life and COMPLETELY forget about him. Do not talk to him again , it will make it worse. Move on, meet other people ,and most importantly learn from your mistake.
Add to this Answer
Ask a Question
|
|
