AboutSandi Expertise I can answer most types of question dealing with teens and preteens. I can give advice on dating, love, sex, friendships, same sex relationships. I am experienced at most preteen & teen subjects and have given advice to many people before. Who better to give advice to teens as being one myself?
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Expert: Sandi Date: 8/22/2008 Subject: My girlfriend doesnt seem to care as much as she says.
Question Hey,
Okay well my girlfriend tells me she loves me more than anything and I'm so important, but she has had pictures of other boys on her phone and we had a big fight and then she let me see her phone and she still had them. I also caught her talking to another boy all day everyday (my bestfriend), and I've seen signs she loves him but she denys any feelings. Now now shes in Peru for 2 weeks and shes telling me she misses me sooooooooo much and shes not happy and to everyone else shes so happy shes in Peru... she also keot saying i can't wait to go to Peru... getting away from me a.k.a maybe? Now she tells me all these guys in Peru are flirting with her, but not to worry because she doesn't pay attention. I don't know what to do. Maybe its me? I'm miserable right now. I don't know if i was clear im not good with words but PLEASE try to help. oh and she has stopped talking to the boy but just because i said something.
Answer trust is very important in any relationship. if you cant trust her then you should probably move on. she sounds like someone who really doesnt care how you feel. how would she like it if you had pictures of other girls in your wallet. or talked to other girls all the time? you reallu need to decide if you can trust her or not. i know its not easy. maybe taking a break from her would be a good thing? let me know if you want to talk more.
