AboutSandi Expertise I can answer most types of question dealing with teens and preteens. I can give advice on dating, love, sex, friendships, same sex relationships. I am experienced at most preteen & teen subjects and have given advice to many people before. Who better to give advice to teens as being one myself?
Experience I'm a teen girl and have been in many relationships, both with guys and girls. I've been in many different situations and can give you great advice.
Expert: Sandi Date: 8/5/2008 Subject: How can i speak to girls if i have low self steem ?
Question I'm 18 male teen and i am have sooo low self esteem that it's killing my chances of meeting girls. I'm decent looking & tall but always put myself down. For example, yesterday i went to a barbecue party & i saw some pretty girls. But for all the time there, i kept thinkin that they wouldn't be interested or i didn't know what to say.I think i saw them looking at me a few times but i thought nothing of it. And when i left, i felt very sad / dissapointed with myself cos i kept talking my self out of it.
I'm afraid i will be like this for 4ever.
What advice would you give to someone like me ?
Answer how about instead of talking yourself "out" of these things why not talk yourself "IN" these things? sounds easier then done i know. but positive thinking is a very good start. sure you might get rejected at times but that if life. just go for it and give it a try. maybe start by thinking about going up to a girl and talking to her. next time go up to her and just say hi. next time go up to her and start talking to her. start off small until your more comfortable with talking to girls. good luck and let me know if you want to talk more
