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About dianne
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I can answer all questions related to relationships. All the advice I have given before to my friends got them out of trouble. I will tell you how to deal with crushes , know if someone likes you , and how to handle relationships in general .

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Written for many columns in magazines giving relationship and general advice about life issues.

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studied psychology for years and read many books and magazines that specify in that issue .

 
   

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Topic: Teen Dating Issues



Expert: dianne
Date: 8/16/2008
Subject: ??

Question
hello im a 17yr old boy, im a quiet person.
Ive never had actually had a girlfriend in my life, and im worried ill never get one. And it annoys me to see all my friends with girlfriends.
I mean im not really that good looking, as alot of girls are looking for better looking guys. And i think its just generally me.

I also have a disability which leads me to believe also that it puts the girls off, even though i can still walk.

I need some advice on dating girls, especially for me as im shy. And also even if i got a girlfriend i would be afraid of meeting there friends and family, i dont know why, its just im a private guy. Somebody who keeps the relationship quiet and private.

Could you give me some suggestions and opinions thank-you...  

Answer
Hi! Girls do not look for good looking guys, girls look for generous, caring, considerate, kind, manly , and honest guys. Nothing should make you feel that you lack anything. Being private is a quality girls love in guys and there are a lot of girls that would take a shy guy over a loud, annoying one any time. Being 17 does not mean anything. Getting a girlfriend at the right time is way better than getting one early that makes your life hell. Just try to be friends with girls first and be a good listener, this is the trick. She will love it if you let her talk about herself and ask questions, you do not have to talk as much as you think. Look for a polite girl that you think would last in a relationship with you. Good luck

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