Expert: Faith - 10/11/2009

Question
I am 17. There is this girl that i adore. I went to her to be a friend but she said NO. I collected her number from a friend and called her with an unknown identity. She responded friendly. But on telling her who i was (a month after i started calling her) she changed by either not picking my calls or insulting me whenever she answers the call. Another problem is that i can't locate her destination for now. I have asked several people for solutions but all was to no avail. Please help me on how she will accept 2 be a friend

Answer
hi there,

i'm sorry to tell you this but i think the best thing you can do right now is give her space. she's made it clear that she doesn't want to be friends right now and one things girls hate is when guys appear to not listen to what they're saying.

i understand that you really like her and want to be around her but you need to give her time. and start slowly again. maybe she has a good reason for not talking to you so the next time you do talk to her, don't overwhelm her. instead, be friendly but casual so she could start to get interested in being your friend again.

hope that made sense!


cheers,
faith