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Life as a teen can be extremely difficult and everyone can understand where you are coming from. And although you may have the answer already in your mind, it's sometimes easier to hear it from someone else. I can answer anything from is he/she treating you right, is the right person for me, how to deal with break-ups and heartbreaks, and so forth. I can try my best to answer to your question as quick as possible. I can only try so hard to understand what you're saying so please, be clear about what you're trying to get across. As for length of letters, keep them BRIEF and to the point. Don't beat around the bush about what you're trying to ask, if you give me something short I can answer them with a better understanding of the issue.

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I too am a teen and find that these are the hardest years to have a relationship and really learn from them. Sometimes, it can be extremely difficult to see through the feelings that we posses and instead, we make the wrong decisions.

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Teen Dating Issues - My boyfriend dumped me for an unknown reeason

Expert: Becky - 10/28/2009

Question
Its almost a year since we're together and I have to admit we fight a lot lately but normally we forgave each other before we sleep and we rarely have big fights. About 5-6 times in 11 months. He said its for my own good, he doesn't want to see me sad again and his last word was "Its not you, its me" I tried to ask him whats wrong but he won't reply any of my messages or answer my call. He left just like that and I'm very confuse :(

Answer
Don't text him or call him. It's over and done with.

He doesn't care to give you an explanation, if he did, he would have already told you by now. Another thing, he's not willing to make it work, despite the arguments. He looked at you an your relationship, took in the opportunities and potential to grow together and still denied the offer. Why would you WANT someone like that?

Fighting is a crucial part in a relationship, it needs to happen, otherwise your relationship isn't based on much. But when your fighting gets to a point where it's almost everyday and you're crying everyday... that's definitely not good!!

There's no reason to be confused, he's done with the relationship and that's the honesty of the situation.
Unfortunately, you weren't done with it but it'll take time for you to get over it as fast as he did.

Good luck! Stay strong.

Becky

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