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Expert: Sandi - 10/29/2009
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well my boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 months now and we are both teens (17 year olds) and these past few months have been great with him.. but in September he ended up moving to Arizona because he joined the air force... now since he has been there he and i still are doing good and i see him once a month because he comes to visit me..
Now the only problem is that since he joined the air force he has to stay there in air force he has to stay in Arizona for about 3-4 years, now he wants me to move in with him as soon as i graduate, but i don't know if i want to go school over there. I do Love him and we are anothers first in almost everything... I want to move in with him, but i don't have so much money for school so he tells me that i could use his but i don't want to take his money cause its weird for me to do that cause I'm not that type of girl.... but he insists all the time and wants me to cause he wants to marry me, but we have to finish our careers first...
so WHAT SHOULD I DO??? SHOULD I MOVE IN WITH HIM OR SHOULD I GO MY OWN WAY AND BREAK UP WITH HIM??
PLEASE HELP!!!!
Answer
i think you should make sure you put your schooling ahead of everything else. it doesnt mean you have to breakup with him but i dont think i would tell you to move there and live with him right now. i would stick with your gut instinct and finish school and go to college if thats what you want to do. good luck! :)
sandi
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