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Experience I'm a teen girl and have been in many relationships, both with guys and girls. I've been in many different situations and can give you great advice.
There's this girl that I have work with over the summer and I had the biggest crush on her. I don't know too much about her but we did become good friends and she said that I was her favorite person to work with there. Unfortunately, once school started she quit the job. I gave her a call a few times to say goodbye and such but she had this habit of never picking up her cell phone. So I sent her a text message instead and even hinted that we should hang out one day. She replied back later saying that it was fun working there with me, maybe we should hang out, and that we'll talk later. So I definitely wanted this to happen but at the same time I was worried that she would forget about me and on top of that there was that big chance that I wouldn't see her anymore because we lived in different towns that were about 20 minutes apart. Feeling worried about the situation I asked my friend, a guy who claims that he's a HUGE expert on getting girls and had a lot of experience, for advice. He told me to give her a week to contact me, if it doesn't happen I should call her and just start some random nice conversation and ask her out. After a week I didn't hear from her and tried to call her but she never picked up. So I thought its ok she's probably busy since she did tell me over the summer that she was going to be extremely busy once school starts. I told my friend about what happened and he told me to keep calling her whenever I get the chance to, text her like crazy, and at the same time flirt and keep it simple. I thought my friend’s advice wasn't that great because when I thought about it I would be annoying and would be seen as an obsessive freak. After that first attempt I stopped and resorted to asking a real expert like you. So here's my question, what’s the best approach to this situation? Should I wait for her call or should I keep trying to get in touch with her? I really want to go out with this girl but I feel like if I don't do anything she will forget about me and at the same time I don't want to be annoying or creepy.
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Answer did you leave her a voicemail when you called her? if so then i would wait a few days, call her one more time and leave another message. if you dont get a response then forget about her. if you did not leave a message then i would call her back and do the above. i dont agree with your friend either. you dont want to seem like a pest to her. she might just be the kind of person who cant say "no" to someone face and didnt want to hurt your feelings so she is just ignoring you. not the best tatic on her part but anyway...hope that helped! :)
