About Nicole Expertise I can answer questions about teen/early adult relationships. Anything from first dates to sex and everything in between! I'll also help you out with all those tricky things like how your bf/gf gets along with your family and friends.
Experience I am 20 years old in a great 2 year relationship. I am lucky enough to have been surrounded by happy supportive couples growing up.
Education/Credentials I am a A student specializing in psychology.
Teen Dating Issues - Deals with my girlfriend ive been dating for 4 months now
Expert: Nicole - 6/28/2009
Question i am a senior in high school and me and this girl ive known since 7th grade have talked through out the years on and off and she dated one of my friends and we helped eachother out and gave advice back and forth before. and now after she broke up with my friend about 7 months ago i am currently dating her. ive considered her a really good friend, and one of the easiest people to talk to along with being one of the few girls that actually interest me. and shes very unique and isont like most girls so thats what draws me to her so much. and when we were just friends it was really easy to talk to her. now that ive been dating her for 4 months now. i love it. although as the months go on it seems like its becoming more and more difficult to talk to her and get the personality out of her that i had with her back when we were friends. i deffinetly wanta be with her and i love spending time with her. although shes also been friends with my group of friends since about 8th grade and everytime i have her come hang with my group of friends she sits more next to them and talks to them more than she does me. and when that happens i get sorta worried and when i get worried i stop being myself and stop talking and just think about what im doing wrong. and i try and think about what to say more and it ends up being stupid stuff i say. it seems like sometimes she messes with my head like ill say i really wanta see her some day and she will give me a "maybe, well see" when she used to give me "yes!, of course" responces. it just seems like stuff is going down hill and i would like to know what im doing wrong and what i can do to bring her back. please help.
Answer Hey Dom. That is really horrible that you are feeling this way. I'm going to suggest not thinking about it anymore and DOING something about it. You are just making yourself sad by running these things through your own mind everyday.. which isn't going to give you any answers. You need to bring the questions to her. Tell her how you feel and if there is something you can do to change..or if it is just her. Let her know how much you like her and that you really want this to work out. Good luck Dom best wishes :)
