Expert: Sandi - 6/30/2009

Question
I cheated on my boyfriend a little while ago and lied to him about it. He has no tolerance for cheating and we broke up, however we are still sort of together. He says hes just not ready for a relationship yet because he has no trust in me and he is still really hurt. I never meant to hurt him and I totally get where he's coming from. But if he truly loves me like he says he does i don't understand why he would want to hurt me like i hurt him as he says. We are basically together, i mean we're still intimate and say i love you but he wont call me his girlfriend. Is it okay that he wants to hurt me back? And i know it takes time to earn someone's trust back, but what are some things i can do to show him that i am trying and i really mean it?

Answer
other then really being sincere to him on showing him that your really sorry, thats about it. time will hopefully eventually heal his untrust for you. how long has it been since you cheated on him and how long have you two been back together?

sandi