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Question Ok, this is complicated, but i will try my best!
I am a Junior in highschool, and after summer I will be a senior, my ex is going to be a sophmore.
I am 16, and exactly 1 year and 1 month older than him. so it's not a big age difference. But I started school a year early. so, when I graduate, he will still have 2 years of school left. so whilst I'm off worrying about a job, and college, he will still be in highschool. This worried me even when we were together, because we've gotten back together after breaking up. do you think there would be a chance of us staying together after I graduate? it seemed as though everytime we made plans to go out, something always went wrong and we could never go out.
would it have lasted in the end?
Answer hi amanda,
sometimes as much as we want something to work it just won't - no matter how hard we try.
i think, from what you've told me, you both done pretty much all you could to make things last and whether you're meant to be together or not, i think it's clear that you aren't meant to be together right now.
you both have a lot of growing up to do - and college is a big change for both of you. i think being apart right now will work out in the end because it'll give you both a chance to grow. you're going to use this time to shape up to be the person who you're meant to be and so is he.
don't focus on what could have been, okay? you don't have to regret anything because like i said, you tried your best. just focus on yourself while you're apart and if you are meant to be together in the future, it will happen.
