About Nicole Expertise I can answer questions about teen/early adult relationships. Anything from first dates to sex and everything in between! I'll also help you out with all those tricky things like how your bf/gf gets along with your family and friends.
Experience I am 20 years old in a great 2 year relationship. I am lucky enough to have been surrounded by happy supportive couples growing up.
Education/Credentials I am a A student specializing in psychology.
Question Ok so Me and my girlfriend are both fourteen and we have been going out for a month and a week about now. We like each other a lot and I think I might actually be in love.... might just be puppy love who knows. But here is the problem because we just started going out the last day of school pretty much i've only seen her twice now once at one of her softball games and I took her to the movies once we never kissed before and if we did it would be my first time ..not hers.. so her dad doesn't have to worry about us making out or anything i've never met him before but ever since the movie date he always said no whenever Nichole asked if we can go on another date
- Nichole is my girls friends name mine is Nick kinda funny but back to the point-
I think it might of been just cause i think he saw us hug after the movie .. no kiss or playing grab ass .. just a nice gentleman's hug
Another problem is Nichole plays softball and she plays pretty much everyday so we only have the chance of going on a date maybe once a week... one time I asked her if she wanted to come to my house and watch some movies or something she said that's fine with her so she asks her dad .. She said her dad like freaked and said were going to fast..
Let me remind you 2 fourteen year olds in love NEVER kissed before he doesn't have to worry
Because of this problem the only way to talk is on msn and we do it everyday for maybe 2 hours on average .. yeah i know pathetic...
One time 7 hours texting VERY pathetic
But here are the questions
1- How can I get her Dad to let us go anywhere
2- Why is her dad being a ____ to me when he never met me
3- This has nothing to do with the paragraph but how can i tell when im in love.
4- For our first kiss should it be a peck open mouth or what and should my lips be on top of hers or interlocked how long should it last and should I hold her waist or anything
Thank you for your time very lengthy and probally annoying question to read. I dont blame you if you cant answer it.
Basic info refresher-
-We are both fourteen
-Been going out for a month and a week
-Seen each other twice since school has been out.
-I think I love her and i wouldn't do anything to hurt her
-I'm mature and don't want to have sex until i'm at least 16
-We have never kissed
-I never met her Dad but he has seen me
(- At her birthday party like a week before we started dating but he didn't pay attention to me much- )
So thank you again my name is Nick
This is'nt your category but it was the closet one sorry for that
- Minnesota USA
Answer Hey Nick. I really appreciate the questions. Okay well let me get down to business..
1. You should talk to her Dad. Let him know that you are being a gentleman and just want to see his daughter. It will really shock him that you are being so polite and upfront.
2. He is being rude to you because you're dating his baby girl! Parents..especially dads are very protective of their children dating.
3. It is different for everyone. But..usually you know you're in love when you always think of the person, and always want to be with them. Also, if you know you would do anything for that person and really just want to see them happy.
4. Probably a couple quick pecks.. lips interlocked. Don't put your hands on her waist at first but if she starts kissing you back then go for it!
