AboutDavid Expertise I'm a guy and I have been through it all. I specialize in dating friends and dating with somebody with overprotective parents, mainly because of the experiences I have had with both. I can pretty much help you through anything because it is similar to what I am experiencing now.
Experience My experience is mainly through trial and error. I have also taken a mediation class, at school, and we learned how to talk to people and guide them through tough situations.
Organizations I am really involved in the AIDS program at my school, we go around to other schools and teach the kids about how to prevent themselves from contracting HIV/AIDS. It is a really rewarding program.
Publications I write for my school newspaper, edited the middle school one for a year and the yearbook too.
Education/Credentials I'm in High School and have gone through a few different leadership and mediation type classes.
Question My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month now and everything seemed perfect before we took vacations. He went to Mexico with his family and I went to a camp in Oregon. We could not talk for an entire week and when he got back... He seemed distant. He does not seem to want to be with me anymore. He used to talk to me All day everyday and he used to tell me he loved me. Now, he does not talk to me as much or tell me he loves me. We even had a date planned and he bailed twenty minutes before I was supposed to meet him. And then this morning, he sends me a text message that says, "Was I the only one in your dream?" which is quickly followed by, "Sorry, that was to somebody else lol." Am I overreacting or is there something I should be worried about?
Answer Samantha,
Sometimes time apart actually pushes people in a relationship from each other. I have had this happen many times and you truly need to be reminded of what you had together. You're going to need to find a way to get him to realize that what you had before your trips was real and is, or at least still should be there.
I'm not really sure what the text message thing is about. The message could have been a number of things that I am not really sure of.
If you need any other advice I would be more than happy to help.
