About Bianca Expertise Does he like me? Why does she act that way? I can pretty much answer every question that's related to dealing with teen relationships and dating. I know how to deal with falling in love, break ups, how to get over an ex, how to tell if a guy/girl likes you, how to get that special someone to notice you, and everything in between. Try me, I have an answer for everything, and if I don't, then we'll work through it together. :) I don't judge, so you can ask me anything. I'm just like you, I don't try to be anything else.
Experience I've been through it all. I've fallen in love. I've had more break ups than I'd like to count. I've had many crushes, and I know how it feels when that crush doesn't feel the same way. I have a little sister in her teens now and she's going through what the typical teen goes through. She asks me for help, and I just want to help other teens as well. I know all about being rejected, and how to get someone to notice me if I like them in "that way". I'm just your typical girl, trying to help others make it in this tough thing we call life.
Education/Credentials I'm currently working on my Bachelor's in Psychology. I'm also working on a book about Teen Dating.
Question Hey, my name's amber and i'm 14. I've used to date this guy, andrew. During the summer we've decided to break up, but up until recently we've been "friends", but treating each other like we're going out. We were spending a lot of time with each other and acting like a couple. But, we've been fighting a lot more it seems now that we're back in school. When we fight in school, he says a lot of mean things and treats me very badly. & when we do, i say things like, i don't think it's a good idea to talk anymore. He always gets really upset that i don't talk to him because he doesn't understand why i don't want to talk to him or be his friend. I'm sick of the drama and i want to move on. So, we got into a fight yesterday because i wasn't speaking to him and i ended up apologizing because i just want the fight to end. He hasn't been answering my text messages since then, and i know that hes ignoring me. In school today, he didn't talk to me at all either. I'm super confused now and i don't know what to do. i'm driving myself insane trying to figure out why he's doing this. I can't get him off my mind now. :[ What do i do???
Answer Hello Amber,
If you still want to talk to him or be friends, you need to get him alone so the two of you can talk and sort this whole problem out. Him ignoring you, and the fighting isn't helping one another and it's doing nothing but pushing the two of you away. Let him know that it's hurting your feelings and you would like to get this straightened out so the two of you can be friends again. I wouldn't stress so much over one guy though. You're young, and there are plenty of guys out there to date. He'll see that once you no longer have him in mind.
