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Why has my crush been mad at me for 4 months. We both like each other. a couple of months ago. She saw me talking to a  girl in the hallway. The girl was just a friend though. She probally thought we was more than that. I tried to tell her she was just a friend.  she has been avoiding me and giving me the cold shoulder. Why has she been mad for 4 months????

Hey Tyvon,

Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring your heart felt emotions and seeking a helping hand for the same. Kudos to you !!!

Well, it really gets suffocating when we have to make our loved ones understand and justify our actions and more worse when that loved one is so close to us. It's well known possessiveness and jealousy of ladies, when their man talks to some lady who is more pretty than her. The ladies normally do take some time to get back to basics and this is the time for man to make her feel the most special and say all those things which she always long to hear. Nothing wrong from your end, but you need to show some patience. In a relationship, there comes phases where one of the partner has to be patient and sustain the bonding, by being silent partner or pamper the other one. Don't think so much about all this and just make efforts to woo your lady, am sure your relationship would soon be back on track. You need to stay positive !!

Just go out and give your best and  things would fall in place...

All the best !!

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