About Matt Expertise I can answer many questions in this area. I can help with asking someone out, getting over a breakup, and much more. If you are questioning yourself as to whether or not what you're doing is right or not, please feel free to ask me. I know much about teenage dating, considering I still go through many of the issues myself. I love helping other people, and there is no question that I will not attempt to answer.
Experience I am a teen myself for the most part, therefore I have much experience in this area. I have been on dates, good and bad. I have broken up with, and been broken up with several times.
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Education/Credentials I am currently a Jr. in High School. At the end of school, I hope to go into the field of Psychology to learn more about people and issues they face.
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Expert: Matt Date: 8/15/2007 Subject: Breakup advice
Question I've been with matt for two years. I am 18 he is 19 and we spent our high school years together. For two years he's had on and off jobs, hasnt had a steady place to live and has emotional issues with his parents. It started almost immediately into the relationship. The past couple of months or so he has just gone off the deep end doing everything he knows I hate like smoking, tattooing himself getting pierecings, cursing like a sailor and most of all I feel like I am disrespects me as a woman. I pretty much supported him finacially and emotionally when no one else was there. About a few day ago he got a fulltime job, his car got fixed and he moved out into an apartment of his own finally. It's been what I have been waiting for for two years...to finally see him suceed. So he called me up and said he doesn't want to be eieth me right now. He wants to do what he wants to do with no strings attached. He said in a few months he might or might not be ready to get back together and i told him that I wouldn't wait for him. I told him what he was doing was selfish in every way possible and that he used me for his own gratification. He wanted to know if we could still be friends and I also said no, ,because I would never get over him. So at this point its goodbye no speaking nothing. Mind you all of this beaking up happened in two days. I just want to knw if I did the right thig. I wasn't feeling appreciated. I felt used and stupid and I feel like when he does start dating again that anther girl is goingn to get what I worked really hard to get and that I was the one who loved him when no one else did. Help!
Answer Hi Jessica.
Well personally, I think you over-reacted a litle.. I'm not 100% sure, but after getting everything sorted out and fixed up in his life, he wants some time to get things straightened out since it's a "new-beginning" for him.. I suggest that you may want to tell him your sorry, and will still be friends with him.. Wait a while *couple months or so* then let him know you still have feelings for him and would like to continue the relationship you two had.
Sorry, and I hope this is SOME helpful.. Today I'm not in tip-top and good condition.. --Matty--
