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About Matt
Expertise
I can answer many questions in this area. I can help with asking someone out, getting over a breakup, and much more. If you are questioning yourself as to whether or not what you're doing is right or not, please feel free to ask me. I know much about teenage dating, considering I still go through many of the issues myself. I love helping other people, and there is no question that I will not attempt to answer.

Experience
I am a teen myself for the most part, therefore I have much experience in this area. I have been on dates, good and bad. I have broken up with, and been broken up with several times.

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I have posted several poems on the website known as www.poetry.com

Education/Credentials
I am currently a Jr. in High School. At the end of school, I hope to go into the field of Psychology to learn more about people and issues they face.

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I have some educational awards, as well as other ones as well. I always look forward to earning more awards.

 
   

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Topic: Teen Dating Issues



Expert: Matt
Date: 6/19/2007
Subject: Help me!

Question
Hello
my name is David and i am 14 years old. two years ago there was a girl who liked me. she use to hold me from my hand and try to flirt with me, but i ignored her but now i am attracted to her. do you think i should ask her out on a date or not, will she say yes or no. what if she has a boyfriend. now we barely talk to each other. please help me
David

Answer
Hello David.  Yay; today I don't have as many questions as yesterday..  I was answering questions for at least 4-5 hours and today I believe it will take me maybe.. 1-2 hours..  Lets see how I can help you though if I am able to..

You say that this girl used to flirtwith you and hold your hand, ect when you were younger?  Do you know why she did this?  Is she just the type of girl that flirts withh alot of guys?  What do you know about this girl now?  Such as; her age, what he's like, ect.  If she's the type of girl that  flirts with lots of guys; I'd perfer to stay back from her.

Although it can be only play, it may have some sort of bad effect on you.  Like; it can cause you pain to see her playing with other guys, ect.  Sadly; I can't say for certain what she'll say if you ask her out..  However; she knows for CERTAIN what she'll say once you do..

These types of questions aren't easy, and sometimes the results aren't good, yet it's a risk that must be taken if you want it to happen.  Before you ask her out; I suggest you talk to her more, and get to know what she's like again..  Try to hang out sometime after-school or something at least once or twice so you can talk more..  Ask for her e.mail address, (if you have one).  

Sorry; but this is all I can really say.
Good Luck and I hope this helps.  Please feel free to ask me as many Follow-Up Questions as often as you like, and anything else in the future..       --Matt--


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