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I have studied psychology for a number of years
Expert: Dan Date: 10/22/2007 Subject: Im just confused
Question QUESTION: Ok well let first off say that im 18 and iv never been in a serious relatonship. and if your wondering its not because of my looks iv been told by many that im a good looking person. i think its because i dont get attached to girls at all(some whould say high standards i guess). But i finaly found someone, someone who im crazy for, it turns out it one of my really good friends younger sister. this makes it hard to commit or try to hang out with her. iv liked her for a while, but recently i find out she has liked me also for all this time, but hasnt done anything for the same resaon i havent. we both agree it would be unfair for my friend and her brother for us to date. she did say this, she said that we cant be together now but she hopes somewhere down the road we can be together. this hurts so much because i think im in love with her. maybe i need to just move on but it took me 18 years to find someone, how long is it going to take to find someone else...
My question is simple what would you do in this situation. im so confused :S
ANSWER: Hi,
How old is she and why do you like her so much? I know many guys and girls who won't date until college years. I don't recommend to rush into dating. Please ask follow ups
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QUESTION: well shes 17, but very mature for her age. i like so much because i feel so comfortable around her and shes easy to talk to, but its more than that its hard to explain, but ill do my best. when i see her i dont think about sex at all, i just enjoy hanging out with her and when im not with her i just want to hang around her. i understand that sex is a big part of a relationship, but it shouldnt be fist thought if its more than "lust", also i think i like her cuz again i dont get attached..ever and its something i cant control. since i feel this way i feel that clearly this means something. im not rushing into dating at all, beleive me.
Answer Hi,
Sex is something that shouldn't be rushed into. If you think a relationship is about sex, you are 100 percent wrong and I hope you don't date until you learn that having a relationship for sex is just WRONG. I recommend speaking to a doctor about sex risks.
Maybe you may want to ask in our : "How to make the right move" with how to get her to like you more.
About your next move while I was going to answer this, I'm just offended by your sex comment, so please ask in our other area.
