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Expert: Dan Date: 10/23/2007 Subject: Im in love n dont kno wut to do....
Question Okay so Im Amber,Im 14 n have more problems then a math book.First off,things you might need to kno before answering my questions are I am a bitch n Im very sorri if I get a little bit cocky at times,Im a recovering cutter,Ive been molested,n Ive seen someone I loved try to kill themselfs in front of me in my own house when I was 7.I dont trust people very easily but at the moment with wut Im going through I dont realli give a fuck.So here it goes.I thought I thought I was in love with this guy Ronnie.Hes 18 but we've been on n off for a few years.Well Im a virgin n he knew I wasnt gunna give t up to him so the last time we were together,someone went to his work n told him I broke up with him...Before calling me n asking me if it was true,he went n fucked some nasty fat bitch from Madison.Well,I started talking to his cousin CJ.Well,we kinda hit it off n wutnot.Well,hed hold my hand n was constantly flirting with me.We'd go outside n hed pick me up n just look in my eyes n tell me Im beautiful.(He knows I dont like being picked up so thats why hed do it)But anyways.He kissed me the night he walked me home n then went back n was talking to my best friend in front of like 20 other people that were there n was like wow I think Im i love with her.I want to be with her so bad.(last time I saw him)Well I knew he had court that following Wednesday so I told him Id be at out friends house on Tuesday.He never showed.well I called him on Wednesday n asked how court went n he said he didnt go which obviously means he has a warrent out for him now.Well,I seriously think I fell for him.hes all I think about all I care about all I talk about.Well,nobody has heard from him.Not even his dude Bobby.Well...He hasnt been in school or anything n Bobby said he might be in jail right now but he said hed call n try to get ahold of CJ or at least his mom tonight.Well,I seriously dont kno how'd I'd live with myself if hes in jail right now n the last words outta my mouth were "Dont ever call me beautiful again" n started crying.Well I guess the question is should I wait for him or should I move on if he is in jail?I kno Im only 14 n "dont kno wut love is" but thats where everyone is so wrong.I kno wut love is more than my parents do n they've been married for 20 years.I dont kno wut Im gunna do n I need help?Do you have an answer?
Answer Hi,
You know you can do better than this person you speak of. I would like to talk to you about the damage done in your life. It wasn't your fault.
I'm here if you want to talk about such. I do recommend a psychologist also as legally I am required to recommend one.
Onto the next topic, 14 year olds may not legally be allowed to date, so check the law.
