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Expert: Dan Date: 11/23/2007 Subject: Relationships
Question QUESTION: Hey i'm 16 years old There's is this guy who i had a cruch on earlier but we were just really good friends; we used to make fun by sayin how our kids would be an stuff.
however he left and got homeschooled. about 2 yrs later i saw him and i gave hi my no. some mths later he called me. we had lots of phone conversations but never saw each other. Then he stopped calling. some mths later, we tried to have a relationship. he said he liked me. so i finally saw him once and somehow we ended up kissing..... usually i wouldn't do that but ???, the next day he broke my heart when he sed that he thinks what we doing made no sense. I promise i'd never talk to him, i've forgotten about him, a lil. but then yr later it was gradtime and he called and we chatted a lot and stuff then i bent corners and asked him to come with me, and he agreed. but didnt come; no, he didnt stand me up on the night. i tried calling him some weeks b4 and he didnt ans. so i took a hint. then like about 4months now he calls me back and for 2 moths we having a good time we took often; dont see each other but talk for really long. I told myself i would never talk to him again and so did my friends tell me. but I still like him i really do. do u think i should tell him? do u think i should still be talking to him? i enjoy talking to him but the more we talk the more i feel like i like him. but some months ago when i told him i love him he said " u don't love me u do't even know me" meaning like we haven't seen since; and he's not the same person.......... i know that this is stupid but i consider him my friend no matter what he did but should i even think about a relationship with this boy
ANSWER: Hi,
I'm wondering why your relationship didn't work before and what were the terms you had if dating didn't work.
Please ask follow ups
Remember the dating laws please
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QUESTION: I am not sure why it didn't work. But i think it was because we have not seen each other in a very long time and tried to form the relationship. He probably thought well " i haven't seen her don't know how see looks anymore what if she's gotten ugly or something" I am not sure.
Answer Hi,
I am sorry about the delay(overloaded here). The relationship did it end hard on both of you? Do you want to date him in the future? Can you act like his friend without those other feelings?
In certain cases when dating does not work, I recommend being friends, yet in others I don't. I am not sure with the above facts which one I recommend or even if I can recommend anything at all. I need more information.
