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I`m here to help you and believe me I will try to help you the best I can. I do not promote teenage sex. FAILURE TO INCLUDE AGES MAY RESULT IN FAILURE TO ANSWER(DECLINE QUESTION) POST IN BEST AREA FOR YOUR QUESTION OR QUESTIONS.

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Topic: Teen Dating Issues



Expert: Dan
Date: 12/4/2007
Subject: was it an act ??

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hi there me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years but at the beginning of the relationship my boyfriend treated me different to now he was a "geek" at school and also a virgin, and had no friends so when the chance to have some came around he did everything to be like them or so he says you see i am a stero typicial blonde,blue eyed model and to a guy i look like the one that is cool in school and gets off with the hot guy at the school you see i am not like that at all i look past the front cover so when i met my boyfriend i was surprised when he said the things below

i didnt have big enough boobs
i wasnt sexy because i wouldnt be a slut in the bedroom
and EVERYTIME i left him he would watch porn
he liked every girl in the street !!

when i found out he was doing this it made me feel like i wasnt good enough for him  i was totally on the floor i hated going out watching tv incase he was looking at girls then i was going mad !! eventually after 7 months he  changed dropped the people he says ruined him and became a very very good boyfriend

but we now still argue alot as i feel like he is still thinking everygirl is better than me and sexier than me you see i am a model but not a page 3 so i think that because i am not a page 3 he dosent like me i also am a bra size 36b but i feel like he wants be to be 40gg!! i say i would have a boob job for him hes says i dont need one i just dont understand?? he says it was all just an act as he thought i wouldnt like him because i was "cool" and he wasnt

how do i get rid of this insecurity ?? its destroying us !!!

Answer
No ages. Talk to a doctor about sex risks. Get tested

Onto the other point it sounds like your boyfriend is a jerk and I would leave him if I was you. You are better than him and you know this.

You can talk to our body language experts if you want. Don't change your looks for a jerk.

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