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Expert: Dan
Date: 10/9/2007
Subject: is my boyfriend abussive
Question
this guy and i started dating and he is so great .... he always say nice things to me, he draws and do alot of things i like to call priceless.. we always have a great time. however he always asking me where im at, he always checks my phone, if i say something wrong he over reacts, he doesnt care where in the streets he yells at me infront of people. he always crying because im always hurting "his feelings". the big one is one night he over reacted because i wanted to stay at my parents house and not his so we argued on the phone. i should say i regret even thinking on going over there to make up because we just started arguiying and it got really bad. he was breaking things, screaming his lungs out and i even stopped him from drinking what he called depressing pills that belong to his mom ....that was just too insane for me ... my question is i was wondering if this is a normal reaction for just being a jealouse person or is this insanity.????... should i accept this and maybe it would get better or would it get worse .????...are these symptomes of an abussive man.????.. should i stop and move on now although we have many good times together????
Answer
I sense a bigger problem at hand. I sense that your boyfriend has issues. However I only have limited information. No ages, and not enough to state exactly what is going on. I recommend him to get professional help. Let your parents know of what is going on. I recommend our "abusive relationship" experts also for advice.
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I believe this relationship is unhealthy and if you break it up, do so in a public place and let the police and your parents know about this.
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