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Expert: Gypsy Girl Date: 1/8/2007 Subject: how to bring it up??
Question ok this is kind of embarrasing for me, which is why i need help. i have some very serious feelings for my boyfriend, and want to give him hints that i'm ready to 'go all the way'. the thing is, i am very nervous to talk about these type of things. he has not pressured me in any way whatsoever, he's been very understanding, but i think he thinks that i won't be ready for a long time, and i want to show him i am without having to talk about it...can you help me please?
btw im 16 and a virgin, my bf is 17 1/2 and not.
Answer Veronica,
If you aren't able to talk to you boyfriend about sex, then you probably aren't ready to have sex with him. Sex is a shared experience, and it requires being open and honest, and most importantly, comfortable with each other. There are things you will need to talk about, such as birth control, and if you cannot talk about it with him, you simply aren't ready.
