About Matt Expertise I can answer many questions in this area. I can help with asking someone out, getting over a breakup, and much more. If you are questioning yourself as to whether or not what you're doing is right or not, please feel free to ask me. I know much about teenage dating, considering I still go through many of the issues myself. I love helping other people, and there is no question that I will not attempt to answer.
Experience I am a teen myself for the most part, therefore I have much experience in this area. I have been on dates, good and bad. I have broken up with, and been broken up with several times.
Publications I have posted several poems on the website known as www.poetry.com
Education/Credentials I am currently a Jr. in High School. At the end of school, I hope to go into the field of Psychology to learn more about people and issues they face.
Awards and Honors I have some educational awards, as well as other ones as well. I always look forward to earning more awards.
Question Hi. I just got out a relationship with my boyfriend of two and a half years. I am very confused at the moment because things were great i was hanging out with him and his family and having a great time like we always do. one night he wanted to hang out with his friends and i said that was fine all i asked was for him to call some point in the night to talk for a few minutes but he never called and when i called him the next night he was really short with me. then a few days later he didn't want to talk to me or see me. I know he still cares about me by most of his actions but then there are some actions that make me question it. I was told by someone one night when he was drunk that he was flirting with other girls and was holding some girl and rubbing her leg but then other people are saying thats not true at all that he hit on a few girls but never touched one. I hate hearing that he has hit on other girls but i know when you drink thats how things go. I have been away most of the summer and i understand it is probably tough for him but i was thinking me being away gave him a chance to hang out with just his friends. i am away right now and attempted to call him or im him and try to figure things out now but at the same time i feel i should leave things alone for now and talk when i get home.i know he has been very stressed and such so i am trying to give him some time to himself but i just feel it is unfair to me. do you think this is a good approach or do you have other suggestions? or any idea what might be going through his head or what caused this situation.
thank you and i apologize if this is hard to follow
Answer Hello Sarah. I just recieved your question when I was checking my e.mail so I figured I'd get right to you. I need a little more information if you want me to help you to the fullest that I am able to. However; once you reply, I'll be answering your question later because of more questions I have recieved before yours. I hope you don't mind this. My questions below are as follows.
-How old are you both?
-You said that your boyfriend must be stressed because you've been gone, is this really true?
-You say he drinks/gets drunk. Do YOU drink yourself?
-How happy are you two for the most part? I mean: Does he treat you well?
-When he is sober; does he flirt with any girls? Based on what I read: I'm guessing not.
Please answer these questions, and any other helpful advice and I will get back to you as soon as I can. Thanks, --Matt--
