AboutSandi Expertise I can answer most types of question dealing with teens and preteens. I can give advice on dating, love, sex, friendships, same sex relationships. I am experienced at most preteen & teen subjects and have given advice to many people before. Who better to give advice to teens as being one myself?
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Expert: Sandi Date: 11/27/2007 Subject: confused of what to do with this girl
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hey i dunno if itz dating or talking but im with this girl we kissed, held hands, hugged all dat good stuff talked about having sex but never had to space or time really to do so. but heres the situaion she has an guy she been with for an 1 year and half, she very sexy but her guy always says he loves her but dont want a relationship. Second, he always just have sex with her told me shes tired of the b.s but she loves him and she knows he's having sex with numerous girls even though he let her know this in the beginning.But im asking she told me she really likes me but hard to get over this guy and i really like her to, should i lay back and go with the flow, im confused. she calls me and is like i dunno i know im going to call him tommorow and i want him to commit... i tell her he wont because he said he doesnt want a relationship. im just quiet on the phone lost with words because just yesterday we was kissing and it was all good and just to think she loves this dude who treats her like crap. well i need advice i thank you if you can help please... i talk to her today she calls me boo but she says at least i was honest with you. i dont know should i move on or what or lay back thank you in advace
Answer it really depends on how much you like this girl. it sounds like you really want to try and have a relationship with her. but....there is the fact that you are probably a rebound guy. set a time frame in your head (dont let her know about it) as to how long you want to "wait" for her. give her honest advice but not to much. and see how it goes. good luck! :)
