Expert: Dan - 7/24/2006

Question
Hi, my names Tim, and I'm 18. I am really in love with this girl,Alisha. She's the best, only she dosent have the same feelings for me. I love her, and would do anything for her, but she says she just wants to be friends, and the reason she dosent want a boyfriend is because she dosent want her heartbroken again. I wish I could do something to show her that I care so much about her I wouldn't do anything to hurt her. And latley, she and I have been talking on the phone alot, like two saturdays ago, she called at 2 in the morning, and we talked for an hour and thirty minutes, and then she called the next thursady at midinight and we talked for 30 mins, now before we had never talked more than 15 mins on the phone. Is Alisha starting to warm up to me, or am I just getting my hopes up. also if you have any tips on french kissing, they would be greatly appreciated.

Later-Tim

Answer
No tips off the top of my head for French Kissing, sorry. However about your friend, your job is to respect her. If you push her to date, she will run away from you. Be her friend. Stay her friend. Don't rush her. Respect her. Please ask follow ups

It may take time for her to want to date you. Should you wait? Depends.

FYI--- You don't love her, you like her. Love is something different.