Expert: Colleen Date: 4/28/2004 Subject: dating online
Question i have been chatting with this guy for about 4 months. we talk about 3 times a week. on the phone about twice a month. he doesn't call me at all, only if i am sick or something like that. we went out one time and spent the whole day together and had a great time. but i am not sure if this is goin where i want or he is just keeping me hanging on. he says he likes me and wants to see me again, but he has not asked. i really like him alot and want to move this along, but he doesn't like to be put on the spot so he says. that i am pressuring him. i want to just tell him look either we start moving this along or forget it, but i am afraid if i do then he will say ok. whatever. please give me your advice. sulking susan
Answer Well Sarah,
Is this guy like in a different state where you two are like online dating? Im just trying to get clear here because you were saying you saw each other one day. But if that's the case then I mean he could be out dating other girls and everything I mean if he doesn't call you only when your sick and everything then that could be the case. But why not just talk to him one night. Ask him to tell you how he feels about you and tell him to be honest about it. Tell him you need to know for your sake. Then once you know how he feels then you could go from there. Hope this help and if you have anymore questions or need anymore advice Im always here.
Take Care,
Colleen
