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Expert: Dan Date: 10/15/2007 Subject: Me and my ex girfriend still tell eachother we love eacother...
Question So this is my story. in june of last year, i got with the most beautiful girl in the world. we were absolutely perfect, she was my first mate (i was 17 at the time and she was 15) and after that our sex drive was amazingly high. after a relationship with ups and downs and ups and downs (i know you heard it all) finally came our 1 year anniversary, in june of this year. after our 1 year, she started acting really different. she wanted to change her appearance, she said she got sick of the way her life was going and she began to go on diets (shes not the skinniest girl in the world) and then after a trial of emotion blasting through my body, she just ended our wonderful relationship. she said that she doesnt feel that much love for me anymore, and that she doesnt really have a nack for sex anymore and she even stopped masterbating all in a matter of a month. theeeeeen this is my situation, she lives about 3 blocks from me so we obviously stayed reeally close no matter what. she told me that i was a person that changed her life and she tells me ALL the time that even though we arent together, i still love you and i need you in my life benji. and then after this i started going to her house.......a lot. we would make-out and stuff and on occasion have sex (but easily not as much as before)and at the end of the day i would put her to bed, give her much kisses, tell her i love and and go home. but this is kinda what my situation is now i know she still loves me and i obviosuly without a doubt love her dearly, i brought up to her about getting back together and she said she doesnt want to because she is soo focused on school right now and she doesnt want a relationship to interfere with her academics. and i am what you would probably call a "jealous guy" when i found out that she had a crush on a nother guy i obviously blew up and i argued about it to her and told her that how can you love someone and act the way you do and then in a hearbeat forget about them. but the thing is, shes is soooooooo hypocritical about this. we could be watching tv and i would say a girl is pretty and she would like punch me in the chest (as playful as you can do that of course) but i just dont know why she is like living a life you know like with me and us acting like we are together and we are a couple but she doesnt want to make it official and she DOES NOT tell her bestrfriend that we do that kind of stuff still. her best friend thinks that im just her "best friend" that is always at her house....but what kills me soo much is that her friend has no idea me and my gf are like still having sex and VERY intimate. and i dont know what to do anymore. can you please find it in your heart to respond and give me expert advice on my situation. because i still, and will always love that girl to death no matter what.......thanks. =]
Answer It sounds like she doesn't want a public relationship. She also may be entering into depression. It's too hard for me to say this online and because I'm not a psychologist it's just a theory.
About the sex, according to MOST LOCATIONS the law is you raped her if you had sex when she was 15. REMEMBER THE LAW. Also understand STIs and HIV are TWO of just the major issues with sex. Please talk to a doctor about the risks and both of you be tested. She should be tested for pregnancy too as well as other things. I don't want you to get hurt so I am telling you about this.
About masturbation, I don't promote it, yet that's another story.
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