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Expert: Sandi Date: 12/1/2007 Subject: ex irlfriend
Question Hii,im in a kinda awkward situation where my ex is being really annoying.I have been friends with my ex for the past 4 years and we have got along like tom and jerry.The thing is she always wanted to be more than friends and i wasnt interested in her like that.Eventually i kinda gave in and liked her alot and we were a perfect happy match for the past year. Recently she has been accepted at uni far from me and has moved away from home. She met someone else and started seeing him (this is without telling me)even though we agreed on being friends but i didnt expect her to like someone straight away. It hurt me alot because she was my first love and best friend for 4 years i felt cheated and unwanted by her.So i changed my number and forgot about her after a few arguments but she kept ringin people i knew for my number etc, and eventually 3 months later she begged me to be her friend again (she broke up with him).Now she has a rude attitude wher i ring her and she wont call back (anytime of day)i ring her every couple of days and she still ignores me. She acts like she doesnt care or anything.Its pointless being a friend with a zombiee. I thnk to myself i should have never gave her my new number she is soo annoying and ignorant.I dnt knw how to deal with this situation i just wanna tell her to live her life without annoying me and be happy.
p.s i know i have written a whole story sorry for boring u to death lol but tnks for the help well appreciated
Answer have you told her how you feel? be open and honest with her and let her know how she is acting to you. put it all out there on the table for her. then if she doesnt change forget about her. i wouldnt change your number or anything like that. just stop calling her. if she comes back and wants to start talking again, let her know you gave her a chance to open up to you and she blew it off. hope that helped and please let me know if you want to talk more.
