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Expert: Matt Date: 7/5/2007 Subject: girl from school
Question Hi,
there is this one girl that i have liked for a long time. (almost 2 yrs now). The
problem is that she is one grade older then me and i never really talked with
her. I began by being in the same band as her, we played trumpet, talked a
little in that class, but we talked so little that we didnt know eachother. We
werent even friends at that point. now, the past year, it was her last year, gr
12, and i was also fasttracking a lot of classes. So i ended up in two of her
classes. We began talking a bit more, and also in one of those classes i began
being friends with a bunch of guys from grade 12. It turns out that she is
good friends with them too. I still liked her throughout this, but had a crush
on someone else in my grade, so i turned toward the girl in my own grade
that i knew more. She turned me down and i was depressed for a while. then
randomily after one lab that we had that day, the girl from gr 12 messaged
me on facebook. she started talking to me a bit on facebook. Then exams
started and i was at school with her almost all day studying, with a whole
bunch of ppl. before our exam she dragged me and her friend and her friends
boyfriend out to the park to reduce stress. (basically playing in the park).
After that exam, one of her friends (a girl) txted me to ask if i wanted to come
study and the girl i likes house l8er. On that day, i got to her house and was
the first one. One fact i forgot to mention is that i am extremely shy and
closed in. So when i was at her house, we talked but i was really quiet and
shy, im sure she could tell. When others came, i loosened up a lot more. One
problem is that her friend (the other girl) talks to me, more friend like, but i
can talk with her no problem but i just cant talk to the girl i like. The next
problem is that it seems to me that she is close to one of the other guys i
hang out with, but im not too sure. And lastly, i am never going to see her
again, she is going to college now, in the same city, i might bump into her
randomily, but now the only way i can talk to her is through facebook.
Can you please help?
john
Answer Hi John. My reply to your question will be quick because it's 4:30a.m. and I've been busy and sometimes gone all day/night. I am tired, and I am in a VERY bad position with my girlfriend right now. Therefore; i'm setting my status to Vacation for at least 1 week, and limiting the number of questions I get per-day after I answer all my "Pending Questions".. Lets see if I can help though..
She's only past 12'th grade; and you too if I understand this correctly.. You can either move on and get interested in a new girl, OR get this girl's e.mail that you like. On Facebook; ask for her phone number or personal e.mail. Suggest that you two can hang out sometime after school and you can help her study or something.. You can do this so that you're not TOTALY out of communication..
After all; you two WILL still be in the same town you said..
