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Expert: Sandi
Date: 11/29/2007
Subject: this one girl i thought loved me :(
Question
I have been with this girl for just under a year now and we are both 16. I haven't been the best boyfriend and she sticks up for me to all her friends a few months back when they thought I was cheating on her because I was hanging out with a friend (who was yes a girl) the only thing that happened was she kissed me one time and after that i told her that we could hang out anymore because i was just going through some hard times and wanted someone else's point of view on in than Hannah's (thats my GF) She knows about it because I told her, and a lot of her friend told her to break up with me and this was about 3 months ago. She stuck up for me and lost a few friends over it.. but recently I saw some things she was emailing (well myspaceing but still) to her friends saying that she regrets sticking up for me and that she doesnt want to do it anymore...i havent brought this up to her and dont know what to do because i know im not supposed to know but when ever im around her she's always "I love you" and she kisses me all the time but i know something is going on. I'm sorry if i rambled on i just found out today..about 3 hours ago so im kinda shocked still i just dont know she acts like everything is ok and all but then i found this so its kinda strange ill never understand women but i thought i knew her batter than this so i dont know anymore.. thanks SOOOO much for the help
-Kyle
Answer
i think you should confront her about this. if she is posting stuff on myspace then its really not private. you need to let her know that in order for a relationship to work both people have to be open and honest with each other. she cant be saying negative things about you to other people. so be honest with her. it may make her mad and this might be how she breaks up with you but in the long run you need someone who can communicate with you. good luck and please let me know if you want to talk more.
sandi
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