About Crystal Expertise I can answer just about any question one may have with any issue! I`m in a long term relationship myself, so I have some good experience in dating issues. Let me see if I can help you. :)
Experience I am currently at a university and I am taking a psychology course. Throughout the years, I have always been the "advice giver" for all of my friends.
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I need some help with having good conversations with my boyfriend,I dont know what to
talk about and I dont know if I love him or he loves me. i dont know how to love
Answer -
Okay, well first I need to know your age, please, and how long have you and your boyfriend
been seeing each other for? Also, how strong are your feelings for him? I need just a little
more detail about your relationship, before I can proceed with my advice. You don't have to
give personal issues away, just fill me in about you two so that I know what kind of a
relationship you two carry. Just let me know all of this, and I will get back to you with my
advice asap. Thanks! : )
I AM 14,ME AND HIM HAVE BEEN TOGETHER 3 MONTHS.I HAVE ALOT OF LOVE
FOR HIM BUT I DONT KNOW IF IM IN LOVE HOW DO YOU KNOW.HE IS VERY RESPECTFUL BUT
I DONT THINK HE LOVES ME EVEN THOUGH HE SAYS HE DOES.THANKS SO MUCH FOR
RESPONDING TO MY QUESTION
Answer Well, there are different kinds of loves that one can have for another. But loving someone and being in love with someone is different. In my opinion, loving someone is where you love the person for who they are and you'll always love that person. Being in love is where you have so many different emotions for that person altogether, but you can also fall out of love with that someone. If you want to know if you are truly in love with him, take some time to yourself and think: "can I picture myself living without him in my life?" Being in love with someone or just loving someone is where you will stick by them, no matter what happens. For example: if he was to get into a bad car accident that paralyzed him & made him look like a completely different person...would you still be by his side? Or would you go and look for someone else? Love is also about making compromises and doing things to make that person happy. It's about putting that person first - even before you at times. Love is such a strong word, that in fact no scientist can calculate it's exact meaning. It is something you feel, and it's something only you can tell about yourself. The same goes with him and knowing if he's in love with you or not. Only he can know if he loves you or not, but you can tell if he cares about you. Does he go out of his way to do things for you? Does he put you first? Is he respectful of your feelings? Ask yourself all of these questions and I'm sure you will truly know if he cares about you. But I must say that you do have to be careful. Some guys will say ANYTHING to get what they want from a girl. There are so many guys out there like that...so just make sure that you trust him before you make any intimate choices. I don't know what your beliefs are about sex or anything, but it is always best to wait. Trust me - it pays big time if you wait until you know for a fact that you will be marrying the person. But if you do choose to go the other way, just please be careful! : ) Oh, and some good conversation topics are:
Talking to him about his interests,
Asking him what he wants to do with his future,
Asking him about his past,
Telling him about your goals....etc.
By doing this, you will get to know SO MUCH more about him! Just be yourself and you'll do great!
Well, I hope I've helped you! If you have any more questions, please feel free to ask me! GOOD LUCK!! : )
