| Subject | Date Asked |
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| right reasons? | 7/29/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend Adrian and I have been dating for about 5 months now. We are madly in love with each ...
A: Caroline, I don't think he is playing around with your feelings. What you need to do is sit him ...
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| dating | 7/28/2008 |
Q: I have two questions that I'm hoping you might be able to answer. I have been crushing on this guy ...
A: Amanda, It sounds like he does like you, but is being shy. Guys in their teens act like this, ...
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| Slight Problem | 7/28/2008 |
Q: There is a possibility that I will be through this even by the time that you respond... but I could ...
A: Jonathan, You took the more mature route, and handled things very well. In relationships, we ...
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| Bored | 7/23/2008 |
Q: So I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 and a half months. Im 19 and he is 21. We've already rounded ...
A: Stephanie, It's great that you two enjoy doing the same things together, but I can see where it ...
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| Breakup problems | 7/21/2008 |
Q: I'm a 13 year old female with a problem. My life is starting to resemble Shakespeare's Romeo and ...
A: Becca, Breaking-up is NEVER easy, and under these circumstances, it's even harder. First, try ...
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| I'm not sure what to call the subject | 7/20/2008 |
Q: I'm 16 years old, and I can't drive yet. All of the time I'm texting my boyfriend. But lately he's ...
A: Britt, What you need to do is have more meaningful conversations, even if the only way you can do ...
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| Boyfriend Trouble!!! | 7/19/2008 |
Q: I need soem boyfriend help because i dont knwo what to do.My birthday was on sunday so my boyfriend ...
A: Jessica, I'd try talking to him as to why you're upset. It was rude of him not to call if the plans ...
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| Older Guy... | 7/18/2008 |
Q: Hey Ryan, I'm not sure if this got through to you or not the first time. If you're just really ...
A: Carly, 1.) A romantic relationship would cross my mind, as long as I had that deep connection with ...
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| boyfriends parents interfering | 7/16/2008 |
Q: i was hoping you could give me some advice. you see i am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 15 soon to ...
A: Megan, This happens a lot in relationships, especially in younger ones. His parents may need more ...
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| i dont know how to tell my feelings to him | 7/15/2008 |
Q: ok so there is this guy that is 23 and im 18 ..he says he loves me but not ready to date (have a ...
A: Helen, There's a good quote for your situation, it goes "give it time girl, fire feels divine". ...
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| Ex confusion. | 7/13/2008 |
Q: Hey my name is Krystina and I turned 18 recently. I am confused about my ex-boyfriend whom I broke ...
A: Krystina, It seems like he does want you back. He got dumped, and has no one, so he turns to you in ...
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| Help! | 7/11/2008 |
Q: Hi!! whatsup?? My name is Marcus, I'm 16 years old and will be a junior in about a month. I go to an ...
A: Marcus, What I'd do is sit her down and talk with her next time you can. You don't want to be "that ...
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| Advice on what to do next? | 7/9/2008 |
Q: I have been in a very close relationship for 1 year, 9 months which ended last Thurs (july 3). we ...
A: Keith, You need to give her a little more time. If you think you're confused, imagine how she's ...
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| what is love? | 7/9/2008 |
Q: hay. me and my gf Eva are both 15 n' we do everything together. anyway i have very much fun n' she ...
A: Sindri, It sounds like love to me. I'm not going to lecture you on the sex part, they already teach ...
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| ben | 7/8/2008 |
Q: ok so like this guy named ben alot! he is soo nice and funny and sweet...we started talking just as ...
A: Erica, It may be that he doesn't have those feelings for you yet, or that he is just too shy to ...
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| my first breakup | 7/8/2008 |
Q: I am 13, and i was recently in a relationship that lasted for about 5 months. I really like the guy, ...
A: Paige, Time heals all wounds, and this is going to take just that, time. Loves are hard to get ...
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| would it be weird to ask this girl out? | 7/8/2008 |
Q: so i became gud friends with this girl on Facebook through an ackward situation. it just happened ...
A: Deron, It wouldn't be weird at all. It seems you two have started to become mutual friends, and ...
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| i dont know how to tell my feelings to him | 7/7/2008 |
Q: ok so there is this guy that is 23 and im 18 ..he says he loves me but not ready to date (have a ...
A: Helen, Expressing feelings is tough, and normal. What I'd do is write everything down on a piece of ...
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| My gf cheated on me | 7/7/2008 |
Q: My gf and I have been together for 3 and a half years now. I am 21 years old she is 20. About 2 ...
A: Ben, Her wanting to go out and experience other things is normal, as you have pointed out. ...
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| Shy Girlfriend | 7/6/2008 |
Q: my name is James. My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 3 or 4 weeks, and she is ...
A: James, You're both young, and although you may be ready to kiss, deep down inside she may not be. ...
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| What do I? | 7/6/2008 |
Q: I have a ridiculous amount of questions, and am unexperienced in this area so bare with me. So me ...
A: John, It's going to be awkward at first, it always is. Try to think of more things to talk about ...
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| Dad Doesn't Approve | 7/3/2008 |
Q: Hey. I have been in a relationship with a girl for almost 8 months now. Everything was going good ...
A: Matt, It seems that you're in a tough situation. Parents sometimes don't approve of their kids' ...
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| when a guy goes through heart-break does he..? | 7/1/2008 |
Q: he liked me for a year before he had the courage to ask me out but even then he had his friend get ...
A: Ashley, If someone is completely over their ex, then they don't do immature things like he is ...
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| girlfriend | 7/1/2008 |
Q: my girlfriend had started going out with me when i was getting abused at my moms. my councilor says ...
A: Spencer, Patience is key, she is correct about that. She has no doubts because she may have more ...
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| Help.! :( | 6/29/2008 |
Q: Okay so I have this boyfriend and it's like we are on and off relationship. We started dating in ...
A: Gabby, It seems that if the relationship is solely based on texting, it's not too strong. You need ...
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| What should I do about this girl? | 6/29/2008 |
Q: This is how it goes. Back in November I asked this girl named Molly out. I asked her out over ...
A: Kyrt, Part of me does think that she has some feelings for you. She was probably telling the truth ...
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| what should i do? | 6/29/2008 |
Q: Lately I've been going to the pool a lot and noticed that the lifeguard was a hottie! So after a ...
A: L, He gave you his number, so yes, it's up to you to make the first move. I'd try talking a little ...
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| my girl | 6/28/2008 |
Q: First let me just start off and say that me and this girl are 16 and have been friends forever. ...
A: Hey again, David, Asking her out for dessert seems like something that is harmless enough, ...
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| what to do with "us"? | 6/28/2008 |
Q: I have this friend and his name Matt. We've been friends since winter, but you could tell we were ...
A: Oz, That's the problem with having "friends with benefits". Unless you have no feelings at all, ...
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| I'm Lost... | 6/26/2008 |
Q: Well lets start with my boyfriend. His name is David and he is almost a year younger than me. But he ...
A: Jade, You've been through a traumatic event, one that has affected you still, and the way you feel ...
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| relationship currently broken up | 6/26/2008 |
Q: We are students going to different high schools. Our relationship lasted almost 2 months but I ...
A: Jay, It sounds like she needs a little time to herself right now, and you're doing a good job of ...
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| my girl | 6/26/2008 |
Q: First let me just start off and say that me and this girl are 16 and have been friends forever. ...
A: David, This happens a lot in relationships, I can relate, I've had to endure it. It could be that ...
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| possibly having sex | 6/26/2008 |
Q: I am 16 years old, and met a guy on a family vacation three years ago. He's over a year older than ...
A: Julie, Sex is something that you need to think long and hard about. It's a big thing, especially to ...
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| HELP! | 6/25/2008 |
Q: I really like this girl and we have been texting and iming almost everyday for a year. She goes to ...
A: Chris, If it's a problem about the parents, then I'd try talking to them, and reassuring them that ...
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| First Love Repair | 6/25/2008 |
Q: I met this guy in school and ever since the first day of meeting him I had a feeling that something ...
A: Bren, It seems as if the both of you have small trust issues that need to be dealt with before ...
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| Long Distance | 6/24/2008 |
Q: Ryan my name is Sarah and I just don't know what to do! I'm 16 and I haven't been with my boyfriend ...
A: Sarah, Long distance is tough, I've been through it. It really makes or breaks a relationship per ...
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| making out | 6/24/2008 |
Q: Hey i have been dating this girl for about 3 weeks and we have made out a little (im 14 shes 13). I ...
A: Danny, Making out isn't too tricky, it's something you learn along the way, and become better at. ...
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| new girl | 6/19/2008 |
Q: yo whats up ryan. im kind of in a bind. well i live at a country club, its like a gated community ...
A: Freddy, I'd wait until you see her next, and start up a convo. If she's walking her dog, compliment ...
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| age fdifference/ long distance relationships | 6/18/2008 |
Q: I met this guy a year or year and a half back online (same country), and we've been great friends ...
A: Shreya, It seems to me like this may be moving too fast. He's talking about popping the question ...
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| My girlfriend says she needs a "break" | 6/18/2008 |
Q: Ok, I am 20 years old, and my girlfriend is 18. We have been dating for nine months now up until ...
A: Jarvis, A break is something that needs to happen if she wants it. It's normal for her to want to ...
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| i need advice | 6/17/2008 |
Q: Hey Ryan, I was reading a lot and found that you could probably answer this the best. Me and my ...
A: Jon, First off, congrats on keeping this relationship going. You're both young, live far apart, and ...
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| Girlfriends commintement. | 6/17/2008 |
Q: Hey my names nick. I've been going out with my girlfriend for 9 months now. We were "together", but ...
A: Nick, I've been through sort of the same thing as you. My girlfriend changed when summer came ...
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| my ex-boyfriend | 6/17/2008 |
Q: i have 2 days left of school and my ex-boyfriend is really starting to get to me.. he was going out ...
A: Pegs, He most likely still has feelings/likes you, remember, he was forced to take you out of his ...
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| Why were people looking at me ? | 6/17/2008 |
Q: After 4 weeks of holiday, i went back to school & i noticed that several people (boys and girls) ...
A: Dani, It may be that your body changed a lot, with the working out, and haircut, and the change is ...
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| confused | 6/17/2008 |
Q: Hey Ryan, My boyfriend and myself have been dating for 5 months and ever since we've started dating ...
A: Hannah, You're in a tough situation right now, so I can understand your worrying. What I'd do is ...
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| Interracial Dating | 6/16/2008 |
Q: Ryan, Why are some people against interracial dating? Who cares what color we are! Why is color such ...
A: Cassie, I wish I could answer why people have such objections. Your friends act that way because ...
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| Confused | 6/13/2008 |
Q: well, lately I have been having reoccurring feelings about my ex teacher. I was his teachers ...
A: Natasha, In our society, hanging out with older guys, especially authority figures like teachers is ...
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| I dont know .. | 6/13/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months and we don't go to the same school. We USED to ...
A: Caterinaa, It sounds like something is bothering your boyfriend. It may be something with you, his ...
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| Friends | 6/11/2008 |
Q: Hey Ryan this is Jack, I have a question about my best friend. Me and my best friend have gone out ...
A: Jack, You can't pressure her into doing something she doesn't want to do. I know it hurts to want ...
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| Boyfriend possibly joining the US Navy | 6/11/2008 |
Q: Okay, so my boyfriend is seriously considering joining the Navy. I am 17, going into my senior year ...
A: Mollie, You really need to look deep down inside, and ask yourself if all this can be done. Long ...
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| jones | 6/11/2008 |
Q: "Hi, I had been best friends with a girl since seventh grade. I always knew I had feelings for her ...
A: Hey again, Steve, It sounds like she really needs the time apart, so a time limit is hard to set. ...
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| My sister's best friend | 6/10/2008 |
Q: I am a 16 year old guy in high school. I really like my sister's best friend, and I'm pretty sure ...
A: Adam, I'd talk to her about the feelings you have for her. Lay it out on the table about how you ...
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| jones | 6/10/2008 |
Q: "Hi, I had been best friends with a girl since seventh grade. I always knew I had feelings for her ...
A: Steve, I can relate to this, I've been through it. I know how hard it is to not have that person ...
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| What to do...what to do... | 6/8/2008 |
Q: I'm a sophomore in high school and I have a question! So, a couple of days ago, I got my best ...
A: Josh, It's common for friends to like the same person, and common for you to feel this way ...
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| Where are we going? | 6/6/2008 |
Q: i really, really hope you can answer me. Help is greatly appreciated. have this guy who I'm ...
A: Ally Cat, You're having trouble opening up because of past relationships, and it's fully normal. ...
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| What should I do? | 6/3/2008 |
Q: I have been talking to my bestie- guyfriend's older brother and I haven't told my boyfriend yet. ...
A: Nenou, I had the same problem with my gf about 2 years ago. Some friend of hers confessed to "being ...
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| older guy | 6/3/2008 |
Q: hey! well there's this guy and i really do like him a lot. We work together. everytime we see each ...
A: Tina, You may want to watch out wit hthe age difference. It's not illegal to date him, but since ...
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| my sister is setting me up with a boy.,. | 6/2/2008 |
Q: i asked my sister for advise and she and her boyfriend are trying to set me up with one of the ...
A: Jackie, It seems as if his shyness is a reflection of how much he likes you. We're guys, we do ...
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| Help ! =( | 5/30/2008 |
Q: okay well im 14 and me and mu boyfriend have been dating for a little over a month now , well like a ...
A: Mackenzie, I'd call him, and ask to see him in person as you two need to talk. If he can't make it ...
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| girl | 5/30/2008 |
Q: There's a girl i know, she is one of the most beautiful girls I've ever seen. we both go to this ...
A: Cristofer, I'd start by asking her to hang out outside of the venues you already see each other at. ...
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| my girlfriend | 5/29/2008 |
Q: i'm only thirteen and my girlfriend keeps asking to give me oral sex,i don't feel comfortable but i ...
A: Jony, If you don't feel comfortable, then sit down and talk to her one-on-one about it. Give her ...
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| Boys Don't Ask Me Out | 5/29/2008 |
Q: I'm 15 and when it comes the guys, I'm never first choice. I mean, I know there is nothing wrong ...
A: Cecella, I've always gone by a quote when thinking of friends. It's "not the quantity, but the ...
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| Im love struck... | 5/28/2008 |
Q: i just want to say im corey, 13 years old and i live in the UK, and in love in a way ive never been, ...
A: Corey, It seems as of right now, there is nothing you can do. It hurts me to say it, and I know, it ...
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| HELP!!! Very important! | 5/28/2008 |
Q: "So i like this guy and i really care about whether or not he is okay. I know he has a girlfriend ...
A: Deanna, Though your intentions are good, I'd stay out of it. Most likely, they both know the other ...
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| ?? | 5/27/2008 |
Q: "me and this girl really like eachother and i dont know... she's moving to oregon with her dad cuz ...
A: Todd, If Oregon isn't too far away, then maybe you can try long distance. However, if it's not, ...
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| Can you help me? | 5/27/2008 |
Q: I'm 16 and a sophomore in High school. How do you talk to girls in person and on the phone without ...
A: Paul, What you're worried about is what EVERY guy has worried about. But, that's the problem, ...
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| Please help if you can | 5/27/2008 |
Q: Wow I don't know where to start.Well I guess I could start out by saying that I'm 18 years old.I met ...
A: Charley, Your situation is very complicated. It seems that this is not the type of person you want ...
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| Ma mates gf | 5/25/2008 |
Q: hey, im in love with ma mates gf, me and her are like best friends, and i no she still likes her ex, ...
A: Jacob, It's a tough situation you're in. I wouldn't rush into anything and tell her how you feel. ...
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| This is my life lately plz help me as fast as you can | 5/25/2008 |
Q: Okay well my name is Logan I am 14. Okay my question is that I really don't know what I should do. ...
A: Logan, You want to ask Jessica for her number, so do it. Tell her you'll want to keep in touch over ...
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| Ex-Girlfriend Problems | 5/24/2008 |
Q: I'm Roy and I am 13. Last year in 6th grade I had asked out this girl and we had gone out for a ...
A: Roy, Since you're young, I doubt she fully has LOVE feelings for you. She may still have feelings, ...
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| Cheating | 5/24/2008 |
Q: Ok his name is nathan and i was going through his message to this girl briana. and here is what they ...
A: Sarah, You've tried talking to him, and he's denied cheating. He also says you must not trust him. ...
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| confused | 5/24/2008 |
Q: Heya iv had a girlfriend for about a year and a half years , the same girl, but over the last few ...
A: Aruther, You're saying breaking up with your current girlfriend. If things in that relationship are ...
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| what to do. | 5/23/2008 |
Q: I'm in a long distance relatinship and have been in it for nine months. I really like the guy i'm ...
A: Nenou, Long distance relationships are tough. You said you were bored. I can relate, I had a ...
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| can i fix it? | 5/23/2008 |
Q: I go to school with a guy that I really like. I've liked him since seventh grade! We'll call him ...
A: Kori, It looks as though you're in a sticky situation. You don't want to be a person who breaks up ...
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| dating/ parents hate guy you like | 5/22/2008 |
Q: how old do you have to be to date a 19 year old guy in PA? how do you get your parents to like him ...
A: Emily, That is true. However, your parents may be able to try and tell you who you can and can not ...
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| dating/ parents hate guy you like | 5/22/2008 |
Q: how old do you have to be to date a 19 year old guy in PA? how do you get your parents to like him ...
A: Emily, There are no rules/laws saying when you are able to date someone. Elementary children ...
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| Crush! | 5/22/2008 |
Q: Well I have a crush on this girl that I usually see in my school and I want to go up to her but I ...
A: Joshua, First off, do you know this girl? If so, I'd say just walk up to her and start off with a ...
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| My bf | 5/20/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend lives in Pennsylvania and I live in SC and we have been together for almost three ...
A: Emma, First off, congratulations on having a successful long distance relationship, and one so ...
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| A... Showmance? | 5/20/2008 |
Q: This is kinda lengthy. So I like this girl a lot. A Bunch. I'm a pretty ethical guy, and I'm in ...
A: Seems you're in a pretty big pickle. She said she didn't mean to lead you on, but to me, it does. ...
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| what should I do? | 5/20/2008 |
Q: I'm very confused. A few weeks ago, I found out this boy in my chemistry class liked me (he's a ...
A: You're asking if you've made the right choice or not. Well, there is something between the both of ...
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