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| My boyfriend dumped me for an unknown reeason | 10/28/2009 |
Q: Its almost a year since we're together and I have to admit we fight a lot lately but normally we ...
A: Don't text him or call him. It's over and done with. He doesn't care to give you an explanation, if ...
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| Worth a shot? | 10/28/2009 |
Q: Between me and this guy that i like there is only a 3 year age difference. The problem isn't the ...
A: Well if you don't know him that well, then what makes you think you can get into a relationship with ...
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| Getting a boyfriend | 10/27/2009 |
Q: I'm 17 and have never had a boyfriend and I feel like I want one now. There's one guy that I've ...
A: There's no such way to get a boyfriend. There aren't any rules or plans to getting one, it just ...
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| I'm confused.....and sad | 10/22/2009 |
Q: Well a while back I asked u a question concerning my gf, or should I say my ex, because we were ...
A: What you're feeling is breakup remorse. I don't think you really feel for her like you may think you ...
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| how to deal with HEART break!!!!! | 10/21/2009 |
Q: Ok well I was talkin to this boy and we started to like each other then he ask me out we started ...
A: Oh, well in the letter you weren't very clear as to if you two were an item. How long were you guys ...
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| Lost and confused | 10/20/2009 |
Q: There is a girl that I am very close to, we have been friends for many, many years. And I am super ...
A: This girl needs to seek professional help. The way she is pushing the people she loves the most ...
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| how to deal with HEART break!!!!! | 10/19/2009 |
Q: Ok well I was talkin to this boy and we started to like each other then he ask me out we started ...
A: I didn't really need to finish reading this letter to me, because it's pretty evident what happened. ...
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| unrequited love | 10/19/2009 |
Q: (I am 17 she's 16) Because I loved a friend of mine and she didn't tell me that she only wanted to ...
A: Don't try and convince someone to give you the time of day. That's not a real friend, if you ask me. ...
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| Bragging ?? | 10/17/2009 |
Q: So my ex has been running around telling his friends or whoever that he's not a virgin anymore . .we ...
A: Oh he sure would! He's a BOY, little boys like him that have had sex, feel empowered. They're so ...
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| Should I or Not? | 10/15/2009 |
Q: Ever since freshman year, me and this guy have been staring at each other. During those times he's ...
A: Since it's been over a year now, I'd say just do it! The worse that could happen is that he says no, ...
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| Help. | 10/13/2009 |
Q: Please help me i am in tears because a boy i like used to like me and now he doesn't talk to me as ...
A: Nothing to cry about, he's young and wants to jump from pedal to pedal before he finds someone in ...
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| Confusing! :S | 10/12/2009 |
Q: Hey, (Sorry this isn't the EXACT category for this question - but I'm desperate and the other ...
A: He definitely seems interested if he's asking you to hang out and asking if you're taken. Doesn't ...
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| Help! Extremly Confused. | 10/11/2009 |
Q: Ok, me and my ex-boyfriend has been broke up for a little more that 6months. He has had a girlfriend ...
A: I can't answer who you should go for. But I can make this decision easier on you. Firstly, this ex ...
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| I don't trust him.. | 10/7/2009 |
Q: Okay, i thought I'd try this out and see if anyone can help me with some personal issues. I've been ...
A: well your situation is not abnormal. Many girls find it offensive and not very comforting when ...
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| dating | 10/7/2009 |
Q: sorry to bother you. I have a question on dating in highschool. im 17 years old, male. ive been an ...
A: No, in fact, these girls are quite immature since you're asking me. It's a subconscious ego boost ...
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| Should i forgive my boyfriend? | 10/6/2009 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years but recently i found out that he has writing ...
A: If this is making you feel that he can't be trusted, don't you think that's something to be ...
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| Why .?!! | 10/6/2009 |
Q: I'll get to the point . My ex & I have been over since the end of July . But we continued to talk ...
A: Of course he's in a rebound relationship. Especially because he "begged" you two get back together ...
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| confusion | 10/3/2009 |
Q: well I'm 16 years old and i have a crush on a 22 year-old guy about a year or two..at first he ...
A: Nothing is wrong with you, but maybe you two are rushing into things too quickly? No one said you ...
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| help with my ex | 10/1/2009 |
Q: my ex broke up with me about 2 months ago, it was semi mutual. i have talked to her once or twice ...
A: If you want her back, you have to speak to her. I'm not her and I don't know how she would react to ...
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| What should I do? | 9/30/2009 |
Q: Theres this girl that I have worked with over the summer but she later quit once school started. I ...
A: It's only normal to over analyze situations like these, she hasn't been responding which only makes ...
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| what should i do after sex? | 9/29/2009 |
Q: So i've been dating this guy since May. IT's been over 4 months. Last saturday, we went over to his ...
A: Ok, so let us not panic here. It's only been 3 days. Not a big deal. If it's bothering you this ...
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| what to do... | 9/29/2009 |
Q: I'm 20, the girl i like is 20. Ok basically I really like this girl and i've gotten to know her ...
A: Don't think about it, what's done is done. No need to be irritated by something that you've caused ...
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| I have no clue what I'm doing help | 9/26/2009 |
Q: So basically I just started going out with this girl I've liked for the past 2 years. I am 17 and as ...
A: Stop being so hard on yourself. Like you said, you're NEW at this so you don't have a lot of ...
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| what to do... | 9/25/2009 |
Q: I'm 20, the girl i like is 20. Ok basically I really like this girl and i've gotten to know her ...
A: Don't explain anything to her sister, if you need a friend, go to your buddies for advice, ...
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| Did he lose interest? Or is he really too busy? | 9/25/2009 |
Q: Well. I've been dating this guy for about 6 months now, and lately he's been really distant. We have ...
A: It obviously looks like you've been doing your research, you've looked back in the previous months ...
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| What is she thinking? | 9/25/2009 |
Q: I've never asked for advice before so my apologies if I'm doing something wrong. Anyway, to my ...
A: In all honesty, I have no idea! I'm not your girlfriend of 7 months, she is. And by now, you two ...
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| Guy Trouble | 9/20/2009 |
Q: Hey Becky, okay so I've been having trouble with guys and i don't know what's wrong with me. I've ...
A: I was exactly like you 2 years back, until I met a serious boy that I had a 2 year relationship ...
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| Not Sure If It Was A Mistake | 9/20/2009 |
Q: Well, i went to a party yesterday in a forest with a couple of friends and i met many new people. ...
A: Well, it's only normal to feel a sense of curiosity for a boy. But realize this, you just met this ...
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| Confusion | 9/20/2009 |
Q: I am 14-year-old girl and I have liked a 20-year-old guy for a long time. He seemed to like me too ...
A: He was sweet towards you in the summer, not because he felt anything serious but because you were ...
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| Confusion | 9/19/2009 |
Q: I am 14-year-old girl and I have liked a 20-year-old guy for a long time. He seemed to like me too ...
A: You have to really be careful with the age group you choose, ESPECIALLY with how young you are. ...
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| Dating my Friends Sister | 9/17/2009 |
Q: Alright so told my friend I like his sister, I been out with her before talkin to him a few times ...
A: You really need to speak to this friend of yours. Maybe he has a bad image of the way you've treated ...
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| My Girlfriend | 9/17/2009 |
Q: I have a girlfriend who lives an hour away, we have been dating for 4 months. I barely get to see ...
A: Your decision on whether or not to be with her should have NOTHING to do with her mother. It's ...
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| im confused.. | 9/16/2009 |
Q: I'm having a little trouble understanding my "boyfriend" we're both 14, and we started going out ...
A: You'll realize this in a few years but guys are a lot more immature than girls are. You seem mature ...
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| 8 months, going too fast? | 9/16/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. We had a few 'fights' here and there, but resovled ...
A: Weigh out the pro's and con's. Before you say something, write it out before hand and make sure it's ...
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| 8 months, going too fast? | 9/15/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. We had a few 'fights' here and there, but resovled ...
A: A lot of these questions are really to do with your esteem and confidence. Unfortunately, yes you ...
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| Have a GF | 9/15/2009 |
Q: Hey Becky, For the past few days after school started i asked what seems to be the most amazing ...
A: Considering your past, you have to prove to yourself and to her that you aren't in it for a week or ...
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| Confused about a girl | 9/14/2009 |
Q: I recently went to my uncles wedding and met a girl my age. We are both currently 16. She is a ...
A: Don't focus so much on if you're going to get hurt, we're constantly taking risks when getting into ...
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| boys | 9/13/2009 |
Q: ok this is the deal. I like this one guy from another school district and I think he likes me. then ...
A: Figure out what you want first before getting into anything with any of these guys. If you need to ...
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| Is he really into me? | 9/13/2009 |
Q: So i been dating this guy since the beginning of may. We would normally see each other on weekends. ...
A: It looks like he's really interested in you, if he's waiting and usually 'doesn't wait for girls' ...
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| Ex-Boyfriend Confusion | 9/12/2009 |
Q: I was dating this boy for about a year and he recently broke up with me about three months ago, ...
A: He's not getting at anything, because he's confused himself. Very much so, in fact. Here's why. He ...
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| I can't get over him.... | 9/11/2009 |
Q: Okay so I had this online boyfriend from Spain, we've known each other for like 2 years. He was the ...
A: Re-read what you just wrote me: "I know he's immature and he lied to me, BUT I still love him so ...
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| How do I make boys notice me? | 9/10/2009 |
Q: I just got over my ex boyfriend.. He was kind of an online one, so I've never really been good with ...
A: Since you've started saying that you don't care about looks, then it'll most likely reflect in the ...
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| Expressing My Feelings .? | 9/9/2009 |
Q: Becky, As you know, my ex & I still love each other . But theres only one problem . I cant show him ...
A: It's not saying how you feel that's stopping you, because you'd love to just say "yes, I want to be ...
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| let go? | 9/7/2009 |
Q: Ok I am seriously at a loss about what to do. Last spring I started dating my best guy friend. We ...
A: Listen Mary, he's away at school and it seems that you were more genuine about the way you felt than ...
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| How Can I Tell ? | 9/5/2009 |
Q: How Can I tell if my ex wants to get back together . Could you give a list of hints please .? Lynn
A: It's difficult to really tell.. Ex's break up for either big reasons or really small things that ...
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| Ex-boyfriends | 9/4/2009 |
Q: 2 years ago me and this guy were boyfriend and girlfriend, but we only went out with him for a week ...
A: Well for starters, the history only happened between them because you brought more attention towards ...
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| Boyfriends arrogance | 9/3/2009 |
Q: Hey, I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now,and i've known him for about 4 or 5. I ...
A: Well it's great that you can identify whether or not you're clingy. From what you've told me you ...
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| How Can I Stop This ?? | 9/2/2009 |
Q: HELP .! My boyfriend is soo arrogant & cocky sometimes . What can I do to get rid of this .? What ...
A: It's just a front to seem cool and "big" in front of you... just ignore it. Once he sees that you ...
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| Am I just a security net? | 9/1/2009 |
Q: (we are 15)So pretty much for a half a year or more this good friend of mine 'likes' me. It all ...
A: It's so very simple and the answer is right in front of you. You're definitely not a security net, ...
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| Whats His Problem .?? | 8/29/2009 |
Q: Hey Becky . I have a ex boyfriend that I truly love & he loves me . But he tends to act different ...
A: He's obviously very confused and clearly doesn't know what he wants. He probably thinks that his ...
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| trust issues? | 8/26/2009 |
Q: i have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now. About two months ago we broke up and he dated ...
A: I completely see why you would feel that he can't be trusted. After you two broke up, he went for ...
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| Signs He Could Like Me .? | 8/25/2009 |
Q: So school has started & Im not much of a talkative person on the first couple of days . But theres ...
A: Seems like this boy has a crush on you! Some evident signs that a guy may like you is that he'll ...
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| Just friends? | 8/25/2009 |
Q: Over the past few months, me and this girl have become fairly close friends. We text and talk to ...
A: Keeping yourself occupied from your thoughts. The one thing that most people will tell you while ...
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| Just friends? | 8/25/2009 |
Q: Over the past few months, me and this girl have become fairly close friends. We text and talk to ...
A: Well I completely agree with you progressively moving on. However, with that "moving on" option, I ...
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| What should I do or is it too late ? | 8/24/2009 |
Q: "Dear Becky, My name is Annabell and I am totally and utterly in love with my friend Harry. He is ...
A: I don't think that Harry is serious when he says he loves you. And I think that you're a smart girl ...
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| junior freshman relationship | 8/23/2009 |
Q: so I'm talking to a guy who is ajunior in high school and I'm a freshman and it feels like a big ...
A: If he's already crossing your personal boundaries, whether it be a little bit or a lot, this means ...
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| ex boyfriend | 8/23/2009 |
Q: so my ex boyfriend and I dated for 10 months and he just broke it off. After a couple of weeks he ...
A: Of course you still have feelings for him, you two dated for a very long time. Close to a year. But ...
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| To be or not to be? | 8/21/2009 |
Q: Heya, I’ve known this guy for over 5 years now and we're best friends. But for 2 out of 5 years I’ve ...
A: You've already admitted to liking him so what exactly could be ruined? If you really think about it, ...
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| I can't say no | 8/21/2009 |
Q: I have a lot of trouble saying no. When a guy asked me out, I said I was busy that night, and then ...
A: It's not about saying the word no, you feel awkward with confrontation. You have to learn how to ...
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| Why Does He Do This .?! pt.2 | 8/20/2009 |
Q: Hey Becky its me again. So im having problems with the same guy . Only this time im more confused . ...
A: This is all a cover up for the way he feels about you! He's so scared to emotionally invest himself ...
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| getting him back | 8/19/2009 |
Q: Okay, so this guy and me dated for a short amount of time. Hes 17 and Im almost 16. In that short ...
A: By hanging out with him, you're giving him the memory of when you two were together. It's sort of ...
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| I don't know what to do?!?! | 8/18/2009 |
Q: I've been friends with this guy for a few years now but only got to be good friends with him this ...
A: To be honest, it doesn't really seem that he likes you enough. By enough, I mean enough to be with ...
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| is he interested? | 8/17/2009 |
Q: ). So there's this guy that i like and my friend used to like him so he knows me. And he started ...
A: Hey Hannah, this guy is a real player. He knows what he's doing. He's feeding you a lot of pooh for ...
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| rather be with friends | 8/17/2009 |
Q: Dating for around 6 months, its usually seemed like my girlfriend would rather be with her friends ...
A: Love doesn't really need to enter this whole equation, but maybe that she doesn't feel comfortable ...
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| Help! Trust Issues! | 8/16/2009 |
Q: Hey Becky,(* sorry my previous message had a wrong name here) My name's Jessica I'm dating this ...
A: Firstly, I want you to know that you haven't ruined all of these relationships. Not to the least. In ...
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| Why Does He Do This .?! | 8/14/2009 |
Q: Okay, so my now EX boyfriend broke up with me about 2 weeks ago & the day after he broke up with me, ...
A: Guys like him are afraid to show affection to a girl because they're scared that it may show that ...
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| Should I or Not? | 8/14/2009 |
Q: Ever since freshman year, me and this guy have been staring at each other. During those times he's ...
A: It seems like he likes you, but isn't waiting around for you either. Thus why he has all these ...
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| Why Does He Do This .?! | 8/13/2009 |
Q: Okay, so my now EX boyfriend broke up with me about 2 weeks ago & the day after he broke up with me, ...
A: He's immature and is clearly insecure about himself in this relationship. You aren't trying to make ...
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| what do i do about these two guys flirting with my girlfriend? | 8/13/2009 |
Q: im only 16, and i only just got a girlfriend, but these two guys (they know im going out with her) ...
A: You're stepping on eggshells which is quite common in the beginning of a relationship. However, ...
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| well.. does he still like me | 8/11/2009 |
Q: hey. uhm. me n my bf had been together since october 2008 up to may 2009, we've been on and off. he ...
A: It just seems like he's confused with what he wants. First he doesn't want a relationship with you ...
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| Girl Trouble. | 8/10/2009 |
Q: Hey Becky, Im Alex, and im 15. I really like this girl whos is 2 grades above me, but shes only 16. ...
A: Well if you're willing to risk losing her as a friend, then you'll have to tell her the story that ...
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| I don't understand my ex girlfriend | 8/9/2009 |
Q: I met her at church a year ago, and what a year its been, we have been back and forth the whole time ...
A: You're very confused, Christopher. You need time to really just be on your own and figure out what ...
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| boyfriend issues | 8/7/2009 |
Q: i had a boyfriend named "Aaron" and on the first date we did it. it was only a few months ago but ...
A: Marie, you went about this all wrong! When you have unfinished feelings for someone else, then you ...
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| I don't understand my ex girlfriend | 8/7/2009 |
Q: I met her at church a year ago, and what a year its been, we have been back and forth the whole time ...
A: Now that you've told me the full blown detail, it seems that her hurt for this guy hasn't really ...
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| I don't understand my ex girlfriend | 8/7/2009 |
Q: I met her at church a year ago, and what a year its been, we have been back and forth the whole time ...
A: When she says she wants you as a friend, she really just means, she wants you as a friend. Obviously ...
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| I'm stuck inbetween two people. | 8/6/2009 |
Q: I have a group of guy friends that I typically hang around with, I specifically get along great with ...
A: You know the answer, you just told me it. Danny is someone that you have strong feelings towards ...
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| Am I a freak? | 8/6/2009 |
Q: Am I a freak? I'm an eighteen year old girl and i've never had a boyfriend. I've never really minded ...
A: Having a boyfriend is great because you get to experience the whole relationship thing. But don't be ...
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| whats wrong | 8/5/2009 |
Q: Anyway so im a junior in high school and im not akward with guys, i have a lot of friends and not ...
A: Your relationships probably don't last b/c there's nothing in them that substantially clings onto ...
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| getting a guy to like me | 8/3/2009 |
Q: ok there is this guy who i like alot but idk if he likes me bac but unfortunately he has a gf but ...
A: How do you know when they're going to break up? That could be tomorrow or 5 years from now. I say, ...
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| I can' t stop thinking about this girl | 8/1/2009 |
Q: I may have asked you before, sorry if I did. This girl is all I can think about. I could not sleep ...
A: It seems to me that you've really fallen for this girl! Have you shown or done anything to tell her ...
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| My GF | 7/31/2009 |
Q: I'm 17 and my GF is 17. We have been dating for a few months. She has been hinting to have sex with ...
A: There's really no textbook way of answering this or for you to know how to do it. Sex is just ...
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| Pls help ASAP. | 7/31/2009 |
Q: Me and the girl I like are both sixteen. We are both friends until the beginning of July, she ...
A: I don't know why you're thinking of being so nice to her on her birthday when she's acting so ...
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| Confusing end to a good night. | 7/31/2009 |
Q: I am 16 years old, and I have a lot of respect for myself as a person, I am very careful with who I ...
A: Hey Ally, well it seems to me that this boy does like you but is confused b/c you are that much ...
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| Pls help ASAP. | 7/29/2009 |
Q: Me and the girl I like are both sixteen. We are both friends until the beginning of July, she ...
A: If she never knew you liked her and recently just found out, chances are, she sees you as JUST a ...
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| Whats up with him? | 5/13/2009 |
Q: Ok I'll try to keep this short but it's kind of a long story. I'm 14 and had never had a boyfriend ...
A: Becka, you shouldn't do anything. Your dad is right. Listen to what he has to say because he's been ...
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| dating | 5/12/2009 |
Q: alot of my friends have either been asked out or are dating, so i dont get y no one likes me or will ...
A: Meredith, regardless of whether or not you're beautiful on the outside, you KNOW how smart you are ...
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| I like him and he likes me but nothings happening! | 5/11/2009 |
Q: I've known this boy for a while now, I'd say about three months. The first month we actually talked ...
A: Melissa, some guys wait a couple of days before phoning a girl. So I say just wait it out, if he's ...
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| hookup? | 5/9/2009 |
Q: I just got out of a two year relationship and ive been talking to this guy named billy. He is known ...
A: Millory, if you aren't looking for anything serious, then I don't think you need to play any games. ...
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| my girlfriend feels awkward | 5/8/2009 |
Q: I'm 19 and I've been taking my girlfriend who is 18 for a little over 3 months now. She is my first ...
A: She's making excuses. Seriously, who doesn't like talking about something when they need to get it ...
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| best friend & her bf | 5/5/2009 |
Q: my best friend who is 16 is dating this guy who is 17 almost 18, and i'm scared for her. first off ...
A: You can only say so much to your friend about this guy. Obviously it doesn't take a genius to ...
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| Mood Swings, Anger, Depression | 5/4/2009 |
Q: Ok well my boyfriend and I have been dating for four months now and we've talked seriously about me ...
A: Kayla, it's extremely difficult being in a relationship with someone jealous, and him being cheated ...
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| what should I do in this relationship? | 5/4/2009 |
Q: I’m David and I am 17; I have been in a relationship with this girl for a month now. One day, she ...
A: David, she can't have that much more experience than you and if she does, I'm sure that they all ...
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| Break Up | 5/1/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend broke up with me because she can't get too attached in high school. She says that is ...
A: Well, if you can't answer that, can I? This is the future we're talking about here, no one knows ...
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| Break Up | 4/30/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend broke up with me because she can't get too attached in high school. She says that is ...
A: It seems to me that you've already expressed to her how you feel about this break. Unfortunately, it ...
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| likes me? | 4/30/2009 |
Q: If this one boy saves me a seat, always says "Hi, how are you?" whenever he sees me, always insists ...
A: Giselle, yeah, I guess you could say the boy has a crush on you. Don't read into his actions too ...
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| My New Girlfriend | 4/29/2009 |
Q: !! I just started a new relationship with this girl last Tuesday (about a week ago). We're doing ...
A: And I don't mean to shoot down your answer, but IMing each other doesn't count as getting to know ...
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| My New Girlfriend | 4/28/2009 |
Q: !! I just started a new relationship with this girl last Tuesday (about a week ago). We're doing ...
A: Kyel, personally in my experiences with relationships, I found that being physical with the person ...
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| 18 year old dating a 36 year old? | 4/27/2009 |
Q: I'm 18 and I have an 18 year old friend (who I only know via the internet) who is dating a 36 year ...
A: Jude, you're completely compelled to feel worried and in fact, tell someone. This is really ...
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| Relationship problem | 4/26/2009 |
Q: I met this boy almost two years ago and liked him ever since he eventually told me he liked me too, ...
A: Shayna, NEVER put your life on hold for someone else. While you're weeping and being all sad about ...
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| heart-breakz | 4/26/2009 |
Q: so long story short I'm 17 and the girl I'm referring to is 16. We both got out of Long term ...
A: this could all be very true. She could just naturally be scared of getting hurt again since she just ...
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| Are we still friends? | 4/26/2009 |
Q: One of my guy friends (he's a senior, I'm a junior) has been acting really weird lately. He know ...
A: it seems to me that this whole ex-girlfriend story is an excuse. He got freaked out that you said ...
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| I am 13 | 4/25/2009 |
Q: I don't know if I can keep this brief or not, but 2 days ago this new boy came to our school. The ...
A: Brianna, well unfortunately because your friend started speaking to him first, she has dibs and ...
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| Sex with my boyfriend | 4/25/2009 |
Q: This may sound really bad but I am only 14. I really want to do it. But I am EXTREMELY worried about ...
A: Brittany, if you're ready to have sex, then it doesn't really matter your age. The most ideal age, ...
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| I can't understand my boyfriend | 4/25/2009 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating since freshmen year. I am a junior now and he is a senior ...
A: Elizabeth, unfortunately, there is NO easy way out of this or no easier way to put this. But you ...
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| Does she like me | 4/24/2009 |
Q: Ok so i have this friend who i have been friends with for four years now. We are juniors. We are ...
A: Doug, it seems that maybe she felt a little awkward once she found out that you liked her and that ...
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| My boyfriend is aggrivating me | 4/23/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year. We're both 14. We have so much in common and ...
A: Meghan, it seems that your boyfriend is really not into public display of affection. But, if you're ...
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| I jus dont know... | 4/22/2009 |
Q: Recently I promised myself not to look for love since I got hurt to many times n gave up. Even ...
A: Brian, the reason why you've probably have faced the same issues and heart breaks is because you're ...
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| Help with my girlfriend, I can't lose herr | 4/22/2009 |
Q: So, i've been dating this girl for about 10 months now, the first 8 and a half months were amazing, ...
A: If nothing changes now, nothing will change in the future. Something is missing from the ...
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| Sex.... | 4/21/2009 |
Q: I'm Bree and I am 15 years old. I have started this diet that my friend was on, and she got amazing ...
A: Ha, you're so very wrong Bree. These girls are NOT beautiful, if they were, then they would cherish ...
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| Sex.... | 4/20/2009 |
Q: I'm Bree and I am 15 years old. I have started this diet that my friend was on, and she got amazing ...
A: Bree, you're going about this all wrong! Being a slut, is a very BAD thing. Because here's why most ...
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| im not sure how he feels | 4/20/2009 |
Q: i am having some problems wih one of my ex boyfriends. when i went out with him he was all about ...
A: Emma, it's clear that you had stronger feelings for him than he did for you. Sorry to break it to ...
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| Help with my girlfriend, I can't lose herr | 4/20/2009 |
Q: So, i've been dating this girl for about 10 months now, the first 8 and a half months were amazing, ...
A: Martin, relationships in general and especially at your age, die down sometimes. You're sometimes ...
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| I need help. | 4/19/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and me have been dating for about 9 months now. I really like her and love being with ...
A: Bryan, it's not you that's changed, it's her. And she's using that as an excuse because maybe she's ...
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| I think it's his mom | 4/18/2009 |
Q: I met this guy, and we live in different cities that are about 30 minutes apart. I have been on 4 ...
A: Lacey, to be quite honest, if he liked you enough and wanted to be with you, he wouldn't care what ...
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| Breakup | 4/16/2009 |
Q: I've recently broken up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years, and it was a mutual break-up. He was my ...
A: Jennifer, what ever you "suffer" from has nothing to do with your decision. You and your boyfriend ...
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| Not sure what to think | 4/16/2009 |
Q: WEll just last friday my girlfriend decided to break up with me after I was a little angry that my ...
A: You can't contact her because it's not your job anymore, you aren't her boyfriend or her parent and ...
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| Not sure what to think | 4/15/2009 |
Q: WEll just last friday my girlfriend decided to break up with me after I was a little angry that my ...
A: Jacob, breaks do not work because of one reason, one of you will find someone else in this break or ...
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| I'm Really Not Good At This | 4/15/2009 |
Q: (This is the second person I've asked this to on the website - the first person said it was "outside ...
A: Well Jeremy, you under estimate yourself which is the first red flag. You don't have any confidence ...
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| My girlfriend being with her friend/ex-boyfriend | 4/13/2009 |
Q: I get this uneasy feeling whenever my girlfriend meets her friend. Her friend is a guy which was ...
A: George, enough doubting yourself and putting the blame on you! Gosh, not at all! She's talking to ...
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| how do I know? | 4/13/2009 |
Q: I think my ex still has feelings for me but I'm not sure. I never talk to him because I am still ...
A: Averie, obviously he has feelings for you still, he was in a relationship with you. And it's o.k. ...
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| Why Me? Please Help!!! | 4/12/2009 |
Q: Ok, Im in love with my ex still and hes 14 turning 15 on April 24 I'm 17 and going to be 18 on ...
A: Vanessa, um, that's a little odd. how can you be in a relationship with someone that young? He's so ...
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| girls are ....woah. | 4/12/2009 |
Q: Alright so my friend joey broke up with this girl named maria 3 weeks ago. Me and joey hate each ...
A: Sam, there's your answer. She's confused. That's already a huge red flag. She's so unsure of how ...
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| spicing up the relationship | 4/12/2009 |
Q: me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 2 years and 7 months. I love her to death and she's ...
A: Jacob, this is normal. You two are young and have been in a relationship for close to 3 years! This ...
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| I don't understand my boyfriend... | 4/10/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 5 months now. My ex boyfriend is basically ...
A: Diana, he's not treating you fair at all and in fact, what he did was hypocritical. When you speak ...
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| 'friends with benefits?' | 4/10/2009 |
Q: My name's Jessica (18), About a month or two ago, I met Cameron (19) and we hit it off almost ...
A: Jessica, I can't trust him for you. But, if you're having fun and enjoying each others company ...
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| He loves me like a sister? | 4/9/2009 |
Q: My now ex told me he loves me like a sister after I told him I love him. What I don't get is before ...
A: Brittany, sorry to say this but it has nothing to do with his mother. When you told him you loved ...
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| prom with ex | 4/8/2009 |
Q: I'm going to prom with my ex who I still have feelings for but he is dating someone else. Right now, ...
A: Averie, the one thing you should do to have fun is NOT going with him to prom? Does that make ANY ...
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| what do I do?? | 4/8/2009 |
Q: ok so I have a problem. theres this guy I dated for 6 months we broke up and now we wanna get back ...
A: Hannah, you have to chose. But don't worry, you're benefitting either way. You're going to have to ...
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| prom night | 4/7/2009 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 months ago. Well before then we had agreed that we would still ...
A: Averie, then go by yourself. You're going to be so heartbroken when he doesn't want to talk about ...
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| boys | 4/7/2009 |
Q: Do you think it is okay for a 15 yr old girl to be engaging in sex with her 6 month boyfriend if ...
A: You can't base it on if it's o.k. Generally speaking, no you're too young to have sex at 15. Sex ...
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| Abstaining | 4/7/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend of six months has in the last year decided to abstain from sex until marriage. I am ...
A: Lorna you have to talk to him! This can be so sexually frustrating and unfortunately, you can't ...
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| My girlfriend and I | 4/5/2009 |
Q: Ello ^^ Im 17 and I got a girlfriend~ woo! Shes kind, cute and pervy ;)~awesome! I'm a utter newbie ...
A: David, these things you are promising her are so unrealistic and actually quite immature. This ...
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| i am a very insecure person and cant trust my girlfriend who i've been dating for 6 months | 4/5/2009 |
Q: im 16 and my girlfriend is 16, but we live over an hour apart. it seems like whatever i try and ...
A: Aaron, relax!! This is normal. A lot of people in relationships lose their sense of security when ...
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| break-up | 4/4/2009 |
Q: recently my boyfriend broke up with me. He told me that we just couldn't make things work between ...
A: Averie, you aren't going to move on as fast as you'd like. It takes people an X amount of time, ...
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| bf issues. | 4/4/2009 |
Q: Ok, so im having an issue with my boyfriend, and it is really bothering me, because it is so out of ...
A: Katy, if this continues longer, then you should definitely address it and stop it immediately. If ...
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| what should i do | 4/2/2009 |
Q: Over the summer a friend of mine for 2 years dated. I ended up screwing things up because i was ...
A: well you were immature and missed two dates, that's not cool and she has every reason to not speak ...
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| BOYFRIEND | 4/2/2009 |
Q: I know you said to keep it brief but it's not possible Sorry!!! XX My boyfriend broke up with me ...
A: Sophie, I know you're heartbroken, this happens all the time. But understand, he left you for the ...
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| Why isn't this girl replying ? | 3/30/2009 |
Q: This girl & i have been texting each other lately & things have been going well. We went out as ...
A: Dan she's not interested as you can tell! You've messaged her 3 times and it's been 3 days... do ...
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| Prom Advice | 3/28/2009 |
Q: My crush and I were talking about prom about a month before the event and he mentioned that he ...
A: Vikki, you can still enjoy yourself at prom even without this crush person. He didn't want to go ...
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| She's dating me but loves another girl | 3/28/2009 |
Q: I have recentley started dating the girl I fell in love with the moment I set my eyes on her. We ...
A: I'm sorry to hear this, but unfortunately, there isn't anything you can do. She has feelings for ...
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| boyfriend | 3/26/2009 |
Q: I'm 15/female. I'm currently in a relationship of 2 and a half months, and I've never liked a guy ...
A: Casper, unfortunately, this isn't his problem and he shouldn't be the one to constantly be ...
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| gf | 3/24/2009 |
Q: i'm 16 and so is my gf. my problem is she is very pretty with a great body. but she always wears ...
A: Of course they like looking at her like that, and they WOULDN'T know until they have a girlfriend on ...
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| HEELP | 3/24/2009 |
Q: i was just wondering if you could help me. Well you see my situation is as follows: I fell in love ...
A: Krissy, I know that you may love him and all, but that's not the most important thing in a ...
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| Just Friends? | 3/24/2009 |
Q: I have a huge crush on my guy friend. He's sweet, funny, and always has fun with me. I was getting ...
A: If his intentions with are you to literally just be friends, then his reasonings for getting mad are ...
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| dating | 3/24/2009 |
Q: This girl I know and my bf knows is saying to my friends that my bf does drugs and is going to dump ...
A: Taryn, clearly this girl has some sort of issue with you and your boyfriend dating, she's obviously ...
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| Just Friends? | 3/23/2009 |
Q: I have a huge crush on my guy friend. He's sweet, funny, and always has fun with me. I was getting ...
A: Brie, you're really mature for seeing it the way you do. It's truly rare and most girls would hang ...
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| I think I might love him | 3/23/2009 |
Q: My brother plays basketball, and his coaches son is AMAZINGLY cute, sweet, funny, and he's good at ...
A: Taylor, when you love someone, you just know, you wouldn't need someone else's analysis on the ...
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| Should I break up with my boyfriend? | 3/19/2009 |
Q: So I am a freshman in college and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months now. This is ...
A: Well Megan, your friend shouldn't be hanging out with your boyfriend as much as she is. She should ...
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| A Little Confused. | 3/18/2009 |
Q: my name's Cody I'm 18 years old and I've been seeing this girl for about a month or so, we haven't ...
A: Cody, you're 18 years old. The only way you'll know is not by asking me but by asking her what her ...
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| gf | 3/18/2009 |
Q: i'm 16 and so is my gf. my problem is she is very pretty with a great body. but she always wears ...
A: James, unfortunately your girlfriend doesn't have much respect for herself orher body. If she did, ...
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| It`s complicated | 3/18/2009 |
Q: So, I have known this girl since grade 6, so I guess 7 or so years now. I think I had one of those ...
A: It seems like you have the answer yourself. If you want to tell her before it's too late, then ...
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| help please | 3/15/2009 |
Q: My name is Tasha I'm 18 years old and I've been dating this guy for 9 months and every time we have ...
A: Tasha, if you don't want to break up with him, then you need to bring this up with him. It makes ...
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| boyfriend confusing | 3/14/2009 |
Q: Ok so My boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me like 3 weeks ago Im okay now but Im really confused. ...
A: Hannah, I'm sorry to hear that your boyfriend broke up with you. It happens! Remember you're not ...
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| confused | 3/14/2009 |
Q: Anyways about 2 months ago one of the most beautiful girls in school really liked me, we had that ...
A: Ben, be supportive. If you hear she's getting back together with her ex, chances are, she saw you ...
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| Best Friend | 3/12/2009 |
Q: I'm 17 and I have had this best guy friend who's also 17 for a little bit of a year now. We both ...
A: Brittany, it seems as though he's not in the same mind set as you. So just accept that. You already ...
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| love | 3/12/2009 |
Q: okay. Over the summer i hung out with some of my friends. Well they brought over some of there ...
A: Lyndzi, you need to just forget about him. He's immature and not looking to date you? Well what ...
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| Should I leave him? | 3/11/2009 |
Q: well my boyfriend recently came back to me. (We've almost been together for a year) We broke up in ...
A: Desi, you're almost at the right answer, but not quite. There are tons of things that need to be ...
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| Who?? | 3/10/2009 |
Q: Umm...I guess this may seem pretty stupid, it almost feels foolish to me, but I kind of like 2 guys, ...
A: Linds, so, you're in a predicament, you have two nice boys in front of you. But you have to be ...
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| How young is too young?! | 3/9/2009 |
Q: I got asked out by a guy I like who is only 12/13 years old. I am fifteen. Is it wrong if I say ...
A: Anne, that is MUCH too old, in my opinion. You're only 15. What is a 28 year old doing with you? ...
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| I am dating a guy that's 22 when I'm 14. | 3/9/2009 |
Q: In November, I met this guy at a family friend birthday party called James. He looks very young and ...
A: Brooke, your parents could not like you dating him for several reasons. One being an obvious of ...
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| crushes | 3/9/2009 |
Q: i like this guy in English but all my friends hate him. i want to ask him to this dance but I'm ...
A: Noelle, well it depends why your friends dislike him. If they dislike him for specific reasons or ...
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| does he like me? | 3/8/2009 |
Q: hey thanks for listening to me. sorry but this is kinda long but i want you to understan my ...
A: It's not. He's just very shy and nervous around you. Try being silly and making him feel more calm ...
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| does he like me? | 3/8/2009 |
Q: hey thanks for listening to me. sorry but this is kinda long but i want you to understan my ...
A: Ali, so firstly, don't listen to too many people. It will start to confuse you and you'll get used ...
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| What should I do? | 3/8/2009 |
Q: There is this guy I really like, but I just found out that he likes My best friend. The problem is, ...
A: CC, unfortunately, it's out of the picture for you. Now that your best friend likes him, if he ...
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| Friends don't like my Girlfriend | 3/7/2009 |
Q: I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 and a half months now. At first, my friends ...
A: Oh wow, you're in a predicament. Listen, when two sides of the group do not like her, there must be ...
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| Meeting People | 3/6/2009 |
Q: Hey, I'm a little worried about boys and dating. I'm 14 and I go to an all girls school in England - ...
A: Olivia, the most I can say is the things you already know. I mean, you're going to these teen ...
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| my boyfriend | 3/5/2009 |
Q: well, everyday i see my boyfriend right. i have two classes with him and we see each other all the ...
A: You need to scare him. You need to break up with him and see how he reacts, because as of now, he ...
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| nervous. | 3/5/2009 |
Q: okay so I'm 14. Ive been talking to this guy for like 2 weeks i guess and we really started to talk ...
A: Jill, if this is your first real crush and relationship, of course! Don't be too worried. I just ...
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| Dating Problems | 3/3/2009 |
Q: I am a 16 year old female and is currently dating a 16 year old guy. I've been in about 2 serious ...
A: Grace, the reasons for your paranoia and jealousy could be insecurity problems. You've never been ...
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| trying to avoid a fight | 3/3/2009 |
Q: I have been dating this girl,Julie, for close to eight months now and I thought that I had a pretty ...
A: Matt, don't try and find the easy way out. Your girlfriend is mad at you and that's generally not ...
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| needs to be more exciting | 2/26/2009 |
Q: my girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 and a half years. I feel like I have been a ...
A: Jake, firstly, sorry for taking so long to write back! My internet was completely shut down for 3 ...
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| Sex | 2/26/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a bit over a month, and I trust him with my life, but he ...
A: Mathea, firstly, sorry for taking my time to write you back. I didn't have any internet connection ...
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| break up . | 2/26/2009 |
Q: Okay so me and my ex dated for 6 months , we are both 15 . I never felt that way about a guy before ...
A: Heather, he's a stupid boy! I'm sorry to tell you the honest truth, but I think it happened because ...
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| Need space | 2/23/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend told me he needed space. I respect his wishes and im going to try really hard to just ...
A: I'm sorry to hear that your relationship has been rocky lately, but just know, that it's completely ...
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| Getting over someone | 2/20/2009 |
Q: My first real love was a girl in high school that I grew close to in my senior year. During the ...
A: Robert, you're smart. Very smart, in fact. Many people ask me this question and never conclude ...
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| Crush | 2/19/2009 |
Q: I am really starting to have strong feelings for my good friend's brother. The first time I met him ...
A: Michelle, you wouldn't tell him upfront because that's a little weird. But indirectly telling him ...
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| this guy.... | 2/19/2009 |
Q: I really like this guy at my school, and I think he might like me too, but he is going through ...
A: Kristel, people sometimes do make fun of others and can be quite judgemental. However, does that ...
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| I'm getting paranoid | 2/18/2009 |
Q: My best friend... who I also happen to be in love with... She had sex with her ex a few months ago. ...
A: Kyle, what goes on in her life, has nothing to do with you, as sad as that is. Unfortunately, ...
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| ex gf | 2/17/2009 |
Q: I have dated a girl for the last 4 years, on and off, just about on the whole time. its our senior ...
A: Bill, there are two sides to this situation. Take your pick as to what seems more logical but ...
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| Boyfriend Blues | 2/15/2009 |
Q: Hey Becky, Im Jessica and I'm dating a boy named Pablo were both 17 and in grade 12. This weekend ...
A: Jessica, this has nothing to do with you and you are definitely not the problem. Never question ...
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| Breakup. | 2/14/2009 |
Q: my names Renee and I am sixteen. I had a boyfriend (lets call him John) and all he actually wanted ...
A: Renee, good thing you didn't love him and good thing you didn't give anything up to him, it would ...
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| Dating | 2/12/2009 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months now. We have started fighting a lot more and he ...
A: Averie, look at what you guys are fighting about, if the situation keeps happening, that means that ...
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| love | 2/11/2009 |
Q: I am in love with my ex girlfriend. i have pushed her aside twice and hurt her. I have had a ...
A: Chris, you aren't a bad person, but you just aren't really taking in account other's feelings but ...
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| Internet. | 2/9/2009 |
Q: I have a serious question.Okay there is this older guy,He's 50 (I'm 13) that I talk to over the ...
A: No, sweetie, none of that is your fault. But, you should stop talking to him or else he can ...
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| Internet. | 2/8/2009 |
Q: I have a serious question.Okay there is this older guy,He's 50 (I'm 13) that I talk to over the ...
A: You can't personally get in trouble with the law, but he can... seriously in trouble... especially ...
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| Bad Boyfriend?? | 2/8/2009 |
Q: So me and my current girlfriend have been dating for 3 months now, we are both 19. I just came off ...
A: Evan, you're 19, not 9. What do you think? Do you think you're giving her a good experience with a ...
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| How can I get over him? | 2/7/2009 |
Q: A relationship between me and this guy will never work. I'm too much of a jealous person to deal ...
A: Christina, you're doing great as you are. Unfortunately, you're going to have to deal with your ...
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| Difference of opinions.... | 2/6/2009 |
Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for over 7 months. Going into the relationship, we both knew where ...
A: Krista, it's great to notice that you have major differences in this relationship. What your dream ...
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| What to I do? | 2/4/2009 |
Q: "This is a hard question for me to ask, but I will do my best. When I was younger, I grew up with ...
A: Mike, it seems to me that this girl is just really unsure, that's not necessarily a really good ...
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| Too attached to each other | 2/2/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for five months and it's been amazing. We get along great, ...
A: Shauna, you don't really need to beat around the bush to tell him the truth. How about you two sit ...
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| dating Advice | 2/1/2009 |
Q: HELP! There's this guy that I've known for a very long time, but we've never really talked. His ...
A: Austinlee, this will only make him feel worse. You will literally just be a rebound for his sad and ...
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| Parental issues With Dating | 1/31/2009 |
Q: Im Isabella, And Im fifteen. My main problem Im needing advice on is my mother. She ...
A: Isabella, your mom has a problem with you dating at this point your life. She has her reasons, ...
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| Is he over me again? | 1/30/2009 |
Q: it just takes awhile to explain. Ok well there is a guy I like, who I have had a ‘thing’ with two ...
A: Sophie, stop chasing this boy! He's not worth your time, he's actually very immature and selfish. ...
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| self esteem | 1/26/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend told me i had a low self esteem and that it was causing a lot of issues in our ...
A: Kaleigh, this is quite common and it's good that you wan to take charge of this problem now. But, ...
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| Relationship | 1/26/2009 |
Q: me and my girlfriend had a year and 7 months going out and suddenly december 23rd we broke up..the ...
A: Luis, you are blaming a lot of this relationship on yourself! It's not right and it's not right of ...
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| Mom | 1/25/2009 |
Q: Well, I am 17 and I have been dating this boy for about three months now. He is only 16 but he is ...
A: Jasmine, this isn't a relationship, talking and text messaging over the phone can not bring two ...
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| Friend making issue with my boyfriend | 1/24/2009 |
Q: ) At the moment my best friend is driving me insane. I desperately need to talk to her but I can't. ...
A: Lizzie, it seems to me that your friend is a little bit envious of your relationship with your ...
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| Is her flirting sincere? | 1/24/2009 |
Q: I'm in highschool and in one of my classes there is a girl about my age that I'm very attracted to. ...
A: Alex, it seems to me that maybe she could like you, however, it's hard to tell because you've ...
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